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My Favorite Debt-Free Instagrammers

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Instagram is a great place to find other people in the debt-free community. Many Instagrammers share debt updates, budgets, saving tips, and real-life experiences in their own debt freedom journey. Here are five of my favorite debt-free Instagrammers.

My Top Five Debt-Free Instagrammers

There are so many fabulous and inspiring debt-free families, couples, and individuals over on Instagram. If you haven’t already signed up for Insta, do it! Then check out these five accounts…

1. The Savvy Sagittarius

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Elyse, also known as The Savvy Sagittarius on Instagram, has paid off $36,500 in debt. Over the time she paid off her debt, she’s documented her journey on Instagram. She also now provides helpful tips to others getting started and keeps everyone updated on her current financial success. Elyse often performs challenges, such as No Spend September, and she updates her audience on her savings goals. This is a great Instagram page to follow if you’re looking for someone who is financially focused.

2. The Budget Mom

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The next on my list of debt-free Instagrammers is Kumiko Love or The Budget Mom. Kumiko started out as a broke, single mom and has seriously transformed her life. She has gained financial and debt freedom. Now, she shares her experience and knowledge with others. Best of all, she posts a lot of free tools and templates to help you get started with budgeting, saving, and paying off debt.

3. Kiwi Girl on a Budget

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This Instagrammer is possibly one of my absolute favorites! They paid off an astounding $556,000 in debt in 39 months. How amazing is that?! Now, the main focus of the couple as they move forward in their financial journey is investing money for the future. They are investing 70% to $100K. The page itself offers up some good tips and inspirational posts to help motivate you on your own financial journey.

4. Debt Free By Thirty

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I think I enjoy following this page so much because the creators are closer to my age. As you can probably tell by her name, the goal is to be debt-free by the time she turns 30. I will be 30 myself in less than two years. So, the story here is pretty inspiring to me personally and you may find it to be too! Rachel has already paid down a significant amount of debt. She started with $54,000 in September 2019 and now only holds $36,950 in debt. She shares regular progress updates and tips as she goes, which are helpful too.

5. Debt Free Weirdos

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I was originally drawn to this page because of the quirky name. Isn’t everyone in the debt-free community a little weird? What kept me sticking around was their amazing story. They’ve paid off more than $240,000 in debt! They have less than $7,000 to pay off and are just killing it. As of September 24, 2021, they will be completely debt-free. They’ve talked a lot about how they will celebrate and I can’t wait for them to reach that goal. It is truly inspirational.

These are just a few debt-free Instagrammers out there. Do you have any Instagram accounts you love to follow? Drop them below!

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What is the Biggest Thing People Stress About When It Comes to Finance?

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Money is commonly the center of stress for many people and families. In fact, 73% of Americans rank finances as the number one stress in life. Younger generations are even more stressed about money. Unfortunately, this is usually because they don’t have good financial practices in place. They may overspend, carry debt, lack savings, or simply struggle to communicate about money properly. But what is the biggest thing people stress about when it comes to finance?

Money Stressors

If you run in the debt-free circles on the internet, you may think most people are stressing about the amount of debt they carry. While that is one stressor when it comes to finances, it isn’t the biggest thing people stress about (surprisingly). The biggest money stressor people deal with centers around major life changes, such as buying a home, having a baby, or other big changes.

Around 62% of Americans say the majority of their financial stress comes from attempting to buy a home. That makes sense. Moving is a stressful thing to do. Sixty-one percent of Americans have stress centered around the purchase of a car, another big buying decision.

As you know, I’m prepping for a new arrival in our home. While it has taken a lot of preparation, we haven’t had to stress about our finances too much because we got ahead. We were able to trim things back and focus on preparing for our baby. There are some things you can do to help you minimize your financial stress though. For instance, we placed a focus on saving and material preparation.

How to Cope

Thankfully, there are plenty of ways to cope with financial stress, no matter what you are dealing with. Here are a few quick things you can do to reduce your money stressors.

  1. Communicate. Communication is key when it comes to relieving financial stress. You need to communicate with your household family members, communicate with loan companies and businesses, and with your partners.
  2. Set up a budget. If you don’t have one set up, putting together a budget will help you relieve some of your financial stress as well. Having a concrete plan for where your money is going will settle some of your anxiety.
  3. Look at all your options. If you are struggling to make all of your payments, research what your options are. Some creditors will establish repayment plans to help you. Many utility companies will do the same. In some cases, consolidating your debt payments with a loan might be a good option. Consider what moves you might make to help relieve some stress.
  4. Don’t stay quiet about problems. The worst thing you can do is keep your financial stress to yourself. While people can be awkward when it comes to talking about money, it is important to be open about it. Just talking about your problems can help you feel better.
  5. Save as much as you can. Having money stashed away for emergencies will make you feel more at ease when it comes to your finances, period.

Readers, what are some of your major money stressors? How do you cope? 

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What Are the Best Online Registries?

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Last week we talked a bit about virtual baby showers and some of the awesome ideas people have come up with to celebrate a new arrival virtually. In addition to there being a number of ways to celebrate from afar, there are also a plethora of ways to register for and receive gifts from loved ones (no matter where they are). Here are some of the best online registries I’ve found so far (plus the perks they offer).

Best Online Registries for Weddings

There are a number of online registries out there. Depending on what you are celebrating, there may be different options out there for you. Here are some of the best places to register online if you are getting married.

Amazon

Amazon will be listed here a few times because, among all of the online registry options out there, it is the best. You can register for a wide range of items, track what has been purchased, and send virtual thank you notes to each of the people who purchased something from your registry. It makes things really easy. For weddings, you can even add things like Southwest Airlines gift cards, Airbnb gift cards, and other monetary gifts to help you celebrate your big day.

Bed Bath and Beyond

If you and your spouse are moving in together or buying a new home after your big day, a Bed Bath and Beyond registry is also a good option. There are a number of coupons available for the retailer, so your guests can save some money. Plus, you have a full year after the gift is purchased to make a return. This way, you don’t have to go rushing around after your wedding.

Blueprint

Blueprint is an awesome online registry option because you have access to 50+ retailers through the site. They also just have a cash gift option, which is nice.

Honeyfund

Honeyfund is another registry option rising in popularity for newlyweds. This allows your guests to contribute to experiences or honeymoon costs instead of physical gifts. They can give money towards airfare, hotel stay, or experiences during your honeymoon.

Target

Target is always a good place to register, no matter what the occasion is. Like Bed Bath and Beyond, you’ll have a full year to return any gifts from your registry.

Zola

If you are planning your wedding through Zola, you may also want to do your registry through them as well. This website is truly a one-stop-shop for everything to do with your big day. The site also gives you access to more than 450 brands, making it pretty user-friendly no matter what you want to add to your registry.

Best Registries for Baby

After your big day, you may be planning a family, so you’ll need to create a new registry for your baby. Here are the best registries online for baby showers.

Amazon

As mentioned above, Amazon has a plethora of options when it comes to what you can add to your registry. Some of the perks to your baby registry include a diaper fund people can contribute to, group gifting options, and item suggestions. Amazon also provides you with a checklist of everything you need for your baby (things you may not have considered). Once you (or someone you’ve shared your registry with) purchase $10 worth of items from your registry, you’ll also get a free registry box from Amazon with some samples and things like baby socks. On top of that, Amazon also gives you a completion discount. So, after you’ve reached a certain point in your pregnancy, things on your list will be marked down.

Buy Buy Baby

Buy Buy Baby is a sister company of Bed Bath and Beyond. One of the biggest perks of registering here is that any coupons for Bed Bath and Beyond can also be used at Buy Buy Baby. You can receive a completion discount on your registry (between 10% and 15%). The store also does price matching. On top of all that, they also offer a free box of goodies with coupons and samples that you can pick up in-store.

IKEA

IKEA is a great place to register while you are putting together the perfect nursery for your little one. They carry cribs, changing tables, high chairs, and even a few baby toys. You’ll also be able to register for closet storage items, which is always a plus when it comes to putting together a nursery. Gift-givers who are buying things off the registry will also receive a family discount at checkout.

MyRegistry.com

If you just can’t decide which retailer you favor or want to condense your lists from each, MyRegistry.com is a great place to start a registry online. You can add gifts and items from literally any online retailer to your registry. As if the added convenience wasn’t enough, you’ll also be able to reap the benefits of any completion discount the retailers offer. For instance, Buy Buy Baby items on your list will be eligible for up to 15% completion discount.

Pottery Barn Kids

Pottery Barn Kids is another great place to register when you are piecing together your nursery. Like many of the others listed here, they offer a completion discount (20%). The discount is valid for up to six months after you’ve given birth.

Target

Target is another retailer that has a great online registry for your new arrival. One of the biggest perks of registering with Target is that you’ll get 15% off of whatever you don’t receive after your baby has been born. You can also stop by guest services at a Target location and ask for your baby registry gift. Their box is packed full of coupons and samples ($50 value).

Walmart

There are Walmart locations all around the United States, making it an accessible place for anyone to purchase items from your registry. The retailer also offers a price-match guarantee on items from most other stores including Amazon, Target, and Kohl’s. Similarly, they also offer a welcome box with coupons and samples.

Registries for Other Occasions

Even if you aren’t getting married or having a baby, there are plenty of things you may want to celebrate. For instance, you may be moving into a new home. Consider registering at one or more of these places.

Amazon

Once again, Amazon is a great place to start. They have literally everything you could think of when it comes to putting together a housewarming registry or list for another type of celebration. In my opinion, it is one of the best online registries out there simply because of its convenience.

MyRegistry.com

Besides Amazon, MyRegistry.com is another great pick for creating your online registry. You can add items from literally any retailer that has a website. This makes it much easier to find and receive exactly what you are looking for.

When it comes to celebrating other occasions, many of the options listed above are great too. Walmart, Target, Bed Bath and Beyond, Pottery Barn, IKEA, and other retailers all offer online registries to make your gift-giving and receiving easy.

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Birthday Reflections: How We Measure Success By Age

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Today, January 29, is my birthday. This year, I’m turning 28 years old and there is a lot changing in my life all at once it seems. Every year, I take some time to do birthday reflections and consider how far I’ve progressed in the past year. I note things I accomplished, things I enjoyed, things I’d do again (and things I wouldn’t), and how the year went. It is also a moment to reflect on what I’d like to do in the year to come.

My Birthday Reflections

This year, my birthday reflections looked a little different. I’m sure many people looked back on the year 2020 and thought, “worst year ever.” In many ways, that was true for me. There was a lot of stress. I didn’t meet all of my goals for the year. But, like many people, I kept going and kept things afloat (somehow). In 2020, I took better care of my health and took more time for self-care as well. That is something I’m proud of.

Financially, 2020 was not the greatest. My husband lost his job due to pandemic woes. There were several large emergencies that crippled us. Family emergencies seemed to pop up every other month and then we rounded out the year with a four-hour move back to North Carolina.

When it comes down to it, 2020 ended in a way that helped improve our lives in a big way. I hope to continue growing positively as a family this year as well.

Why You Shouldn’t Compare Yourself to Others

It is truly a mistake to measure your success against others your age. There are a lot of factors that impact how you have progressed through life. For instance, you may have had to battle serious financial struggles or mental health concerns. Not everyone your age has had to deal with those things.

On the same note, not everyone has the same long-term goals as you do. A friend of mine was speaking about graduating with her doctorate soon. She’s been working nonstop to achieve that goal but feels behind when she compares herself to her peers. Many of us have graduated and gone on to pursue careers six years ago. However, none of us will have the honor of being called a doctor. While we’ve been working to rent apartments and pay off student loans, she’s been making her dreams come true.

What I’m trying to say is if birthday reflections or self-reflection, in general, are part of your life, consider your own personal goals rather than what your peers are doing. True happiness will stem from achieving those personal goals.

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People Rarely Take Their Own Advice

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As we’ve made plenty of decisions about our lives and finances, many people have offered up words of wisdom to help us get through. However, something I’ve noticed is that people rarely take their own advice. In fact, when I think about it, it may even go back to the age-old saying my own mom recited to me, “Do as I say and not as I do.” But why is it that people seem to be able to offer up advice that they themselves can’t take (or at least can’t seem to adopt in their own lives)?

The Truth Behind It


Most of the time when people offer up their shining advice on a silver platter it is something they rarely do (or have ever done) themselves. When it comes down to it though, it is simply hard to be your own advisor. Your emotions and additional internal knowledge will cloud your judgment and lead you to make decisions that you, perhaps, would not recommend to anyone else.

More simply put, when you are not in the middle of a problem, you are better able to look at the issue objectively without all those pesky, irrelevant details. A blog post from The Cut outlined one specific example of when people talk about health issues. When we discuss health problems with someone else, we almost always suggest they get a second opinion. Once your doctor’s appointment arrives though, many people neglect to ask for a referral for a second opinion.

Why? Well, most people say that they don’t want to offend their doctor. This is something irrelevant to the actual decision at hand. When you are on the outside looking in, it is easier to look at it objectively. The same can be said of career advice, hair advice, and pretty much anything else.

Will You Take Your Own Advice?

Even I am guilty of doing this. I push the debt snowball (which I still haven’t nailed down for our family). I write on this blog every week while my finances are still not in tip-top shape, but the advice I am able to give here is from my own personal experiences. Even if I’m not taking that advice right now, per se, they are things that have helped me.

Any time you are looking at someone else’s situation, it is easier to really see the big-picture view. Having that same view when it comes to your own life is hard. It is easy to get hung up on the small stuff. But, when it comes down to it, it is all small stuff – so don’t sweat it.

When you consider offering up advice to someone, solicited or unsolicited, think about whether or not you follow that piece of advice yourself. Or, maybe, more importantly, think about whether you should be following those words of advice. Chances are, you are telling them something you need to hear too.

Readers, do you have trouble following your own advice, even when it is good?

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Continued Student Loan Payment Relief Through 2021

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COVID-19 has changed a lot of things in everyday life for most people. Many of us have transitioned into working from home, or not working at all. Others have had their entire lives uprooted. In many cases, it has also impacted people’s ability to pay their bills. Because of this, the United States government is offering student loan payment relief options through December 31, 2020, which is beyond the initial September extension.

Changes to Student Loan Payment Relief

In the wake of the coronavirus in the U.S., the government announced there would be no interest on student loans through September. This also meant no payments were required of borrowers during this time. Early in August President Donald Trump announced this extension would continue through December 31, 2020.

On top of suspending payments during this time, loan providers will also stop collections on defaulted loans. Loans will also be interest-free through the end of the year.

Should You Keep Paying on Your Loans?

Because loans are interest-free at this time, it is a great time to continue paying (and even pay more) on your student loans. For people who are able to keep up payments, this is the perfect time to really attack those loans. You could potentially make some serious debt freedom progress.

However, not everyone is able to continue payments at this time (I haven’t been able to). The student loan payment relief couldn’t have come at a better time for us. We are looking at moving again because of the cost-of-living here as well as a number of personal reasons. Recently, we were hit with about $1,500 in unexpected expenses, bottoming out our emergency fund.

So, when it comes down to it, don’t beat yourself up about not making these extra payments right now or being able to keep up with everything. Most of us can’t right now. By all means, if you have the ability, pay as much debt off as you possibly can, but if you’re working on just keeping your head above water right now, that is okay too.

Readers, how has the student loan payment relief impacted your finances? Are you still making payments or have you taken a break?

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Preparing for Financial Recovery

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No one has gone completely untouched by the coronavirus pandemic. Half of Americans say they’ve been financially affected by the virus. However, many states are beginning to reopen businesses and some folks are going back to work. What many people aren’t considering is how to begin setting themselves up for their own financial recovery.

What Will Your Financial Recovery Look Like?

Before you can start preparing to recover from this pandemic financially, you need to consider how you’ve been impacted. Everyone’s finances are set up differently. Some individuals have been hit way harder than others during this time. Certain folks are out of work, while others haven’t been financially impacted (much).

If you’ve been out of work, the first thing you may do when you get back to your job is get caught up on your bills. Others may want to focus on revamping their emergency funds or savings accounts. Many will look at how they can mend their retirement accounts after the market crash.

Depending on how you were impacted by the global pandemic, what you focus on will be different. So, think about how you have been affected by COVID-19 and what your first steps need to be.

Our Recovery

For us, our financial recovery will focus on re-establishing our emergency fund and focusing on rebuilding our credit. We decided to take a break from a few payments during this time so our finances wouldn’t be as tight.

This will undoubtedly have an impact on our credit scores and the length of our debt freedom journey, but it was something we thought would decrease our current financial stress. (Worth it, in my book!) Once we’ve rebuilt some of those areas, we will refocus on snowballing our debt with everything we’ve got.

On top of that, we are also going to be looking into some hustles to help us earn a bit more to make these things start happening sooner. My husband is looking at becoming a delivery driver and I’ve looked at some additional hustles as well.

For now though, we are continuing to stay in and stay safe! Readers, how are you prepping for financial recovery post-COVID?

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Our First Thanksgiving

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My last personal update had a ton of good news and it seems like that isn’t going to stop any time soon. In fact, we have some even better news!

Debt Payoff Progress

We paid a total of $391 on our credit cards this month (the first payment in a while). It felt so good to be getting back on top of each of our payments. We’re also happily saving up our $1,000 emergency fund. Once that is in place, we will have quite a bit more cash to snowball our debt. We are half way to our savings goal currently.

On top of that, we have a family first…

Our First Thanksgiving

My other half and I have had two Thanksgivings together (this will be our third). However, we haven’t ever hosted Thanksgiving. Our first holiday together, we visited with his family in Tennessee, and last year we stayed home and had a meal with just the two of us. This year we will be hosting our family!

This is huge for a few reasons.

First, I am happy we have the ability to host our family this year. We aren’t scraping by so badly we can’t spare $40 for a meal. This has given me some additional optimism about our current financial situation.

Second, it is absolutely a big deal to have the family here, in our home, and cook for them and have quality time. We’ve not had the entire crew here before.

Lastly, we have a budget and we’ve managed to stick to it! Here’s how…

Thanksgiving Budget

Like I said, we’ve managed to keep the entire meal under $40. Everything costed $36.89 to be exact. It hasn’t added any additional cost either!

We scoped out the different sales on turkeys and picked a 15-lb bird up for $4.10. The promotion required you to purchase $35 in groceries to get the $0.27 per pound price, so we just purchased our week’s worth of groceries and got the turkey at a decent price.

Everything else, we’ve picked up at Aldi. Because I had some marked down meat stored away, the “extra” cost of the Thanksgiving fixings was offset by having backup meals at home already. So, we didn’t go over our $50/week grocery budget when we got everything else either.

So, essentially, Thanksgiving isn’t going to cost us any extra this year! We are looking forward to a nice Thanksgiving with family in OUR home (without even altering our budget). How awesome is that?!

Readers, what do you have planned for Thanksgiving this year? 

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Suicide Prevention Awareness Month: Remember, Your Debt Doesn’t Define You

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Did you know nearly 30,000 Americans commit suicide every year? Although there are many reasons someone may choose to take their own life, in many cases, finances play a huge role in suicide. More specifically, individuals in debt are more likely to have suicidal thoughts. So, as a part of the 3rd Annual Suicide Prevention Awareness Month blog tour, I wanted to share some more of my personal debt story.

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September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month

According to research performed by the Money and Mental Health Policy Institute, there is a clear tie between finance and suicide. Individuals who’ve experienced a major financial crisis within the last six months are eight times as likely to have suicidal thoughts than those who aren’t holding any financial stress. The study went on to say that people with multiple debts, or individuals who are unemployed, are especially at risk.

Drowning in Debt

As you all know, I’m currently holding about $65,000 in debt with my other half. Although we already steadily work on paying things off, it gets heavy. Every time money comes in, it is going out on yet another debt repayment or bill.

If you’ve been following the blog for a while, you know that $65,000 in debt is still an improvement upon where I once was. At one point, I was homeless (living in a motel). I needed desperately to pay off a $1,600 debt in order to be able to have a home again. During my six months of being homeless, I hit some of my lowest of lows and, yes, even contemplated taking my own life.

I felt like life was a constant struggle with no relief. On top of feeling like I had no way out, I also felt as though my debt was burdening others. My other half just relocated nearly five hours to start a life together and I felt as though I was holding everything back – for him, for both of us. Not to mention, I was so broke and so tied down with finances that I couldn’t see many of my friends. I didn’t have a vehicle. I didn’t have money to go out. I felt alone.

Wake Up Call

We got a windfall that allowed us to pay off the $1,600 initial debt that was holding us back and got moved into an apartment within two months. After I got that paid off, I realized that things could (and would) improve as long as I remembered I wasn’t alone. More importantly, I remembered my life was more important than the debt I carried.

Debt is exhausting – emotionally and physically at times – but it is something most people have faced in their lives. If you feel like you are alone in this, you’re not. Millions of people are in debt, but it does not have to be a death sentence. I am living proof!

Startling Suicide Statistics

Because this month is about raising suicide prevention awareness, I wanted to leave you all with a few statistics and resources.

Who is at Risk?

  • Suicide rates are highest in the spring.
  • For individuals between the ages of 24 and 35 suicide is the second leading cause of death.
  • Women are more prone to having suicidal thoughts, however, men make up 79% of all suicide deaths.

However, everyone is at risk for suicide if you experience depression or are feeling overwhelmed in life.

Suicide Doesn’t Fix Anything

I have lost family members and friends to suicide and I personally know the pain it can bring. Whether you’re up to your eyeballs in debt or feel like you are a burden financially, suicide is never the answer. In many cases, it leaves your family to pay for unexpected funeral costs. Not to mention, your family will experience an unbelievable emotional burden that will never be lifted.

Losing someone to suicide is absolutely heartbreaking. Speaking out about the link between money and mental illness, like depression, can help reduce the stigma and prevent further suicides.

This blog post is part of the 3rd Annual Suicide Prevention Awareness Month blog tour. If you are feeling suicidal, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or text HOME to 741741. 

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