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Valentine’s Day: Money and Marriage Reflection

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My husband and I haven’t ever really celebrated Valentine’s Day in the past. Early on in our relationship, our finances were an absolute mess and we were homeless together. While that’s thankfully no longer the case, we’ve always looked at it for what it was: a retail holiday. However, with our little one becoming more aware of holidays and other things, this year was a bit different. Honestly, this Valentine’s Day was great for our family and fantastic for our marriage.

Why We Didn’t Do Valentine’s Day

In the past, as I mentioned above, Valentine’s Day was typically a day that came and went without any fuss. Of course, we’d both say “Happy Valentine’s Day,” give the other one a kiss and go about our days. That’s not any different from any other day throughout the year though.

Our reasons for this varied. We had a lot of past relationship trauma from previous partners that made the holiday hard to enjoy. Not to mention, there were several years when celebrating some in-between holiday was not possible. We were broke and there was no room in the budget for any of it.

On top of that, Valentine’s Day always felt like a big deal for nothing. I’m not something who wants to be showered in flowers or candy – neither is he. We both enjoy more practical gifts and don’t like to buy into retail holidays (unless we are cashing in on the sales afterwards).

This year was a little bit different though, all thanks to my husband.

How We Celebrated This Year

The past couple of weeks have been tremendously stressful in our household. My husband and I are both working on multiple projects at our jobs. Our little one is cutting more teeth and, to top it off, our dog got very sick. After a few months of health issues myself, everything piling up made the world feel like it was on fire.

Being the man he is, my husband knew how to turn that around, at least a little bit. He snuck out of the house during the day, grabbed me some roses and grabbed our daughter a small present. We both got little Reese’s candies. Then, he revealed he’d planned to order dinner in so that I didn’t have to stress over dinner after a busy workday.

In truth, it was absolutely perfect. It was a nice pick-me-up from the weeks and months of stress piling up. Even more than that, the gesture brought a spark back into our marriage that I hadn’t realized fizzled to begin with.

All of this to say, if you’re against V-Day, I understand. But don’t let a single day go by without telling your spouse you love them or making some small gesture to brighten their days. Don’t go way out of your budget or do anything crazy, but the smallest things can make a huge difference.

We’re people that celebrate Valentine’s Day now. What about you? Do you celebrate?

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Financial Infidelity Is Real! Make Sure You’re Not Doing It

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I came across a post recently that talked about committing financial infidelity. The blog post mainly focused on one person’s story, but I got to thinking about my past relationships, my current marriage, and what kind of infidelity of experienced – and committed – financially. It was a toe-stepper.

What Is Financial Infidelity?

According to Investopedia, the official definition for financial infidelity is this: it occurs when couples with combined finances lie to each other about money. Simple enough! This could mean anything from using joint funds to physically cheat, hiding money in a separate account, covering up debt, or spending crazy amounts of money on personal items.

Marketwatch Discusses How To Mend Wrongdoings

Many of my recent posts have been reflective (it’s just that time of year for me). However, after reading the post on Marketwatch about this person’s admitted financial infidelity. Here is a clip from the post:

I have committed financial infidelity. This is a second marriage, and one of my sons is unstable and a substance user. He has stolen from us in the past, and two of his children are now living with him.

He doesn’t work, is on public assistance, and demands money from me. He gets very abusive when I don’t give it to him. This is the second time I have gone into debt behind my husband’s back.

They go on to share that, in order to help their child, they have racked up $50,000 in credit card debt that their spouse doesn’t know about. While I haven’t had anything exactly like that happen to me, I have experienced financial infidelity in my life.

My Experiences With Financial Infidelity

On my end, I have committed this plenty before getting together with my husband. I did not communicate about financial transactions, hid money away for a get away, and spent $400 on a painting because I felt entitled to the money in the joint account. All of this without permission, without consent.

Prior to meeting my husband, I was living with a long-time boyfriend. We had combined a lot of our finances, but we were never married (something I’ve learned from). Throughout our relationship, he hid money and spent money on various inappropriate things while I struggled to pay our rent while waiting tables, working a catering job, and going to school full-time. Many times, he lied to me about having money and I would have to ask friends or family, only to find out he had money all along.

He also had me co-sign on a car loan for him and when he failed to make the payments, he allowed them to repossess the car and drove mine into the ground. It is crazy how different my financial relationship with my husband is. We’ve never committed financial infidelity, and there are things you can do to avoid it.

How To Avoid Doing ‘It’

The biggest thing we do in our marriage to ensure these things don’t happen is we communicate about everything, especially when it is money related. Now, it is a little less strict than it used to be because we have more cashflow in our home. So, smaller purchases didn’t need to be talked about. However, when we first got together, there were times we had to discuss a $10 purchase.

These days, we don’t have to talk about every little thing we buy, but we discuss big purchases – even gifts. Sometimes, we still catch each other checking with the other person about a $20 spend even though it isn’t necessary. This is because communication is key to success in your marriage and with your finances.

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How to Save Money on Your Dream Backyard Wedding

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In America, about 90 percent of people usually get married before they clock 50. With several options, getting married can be confusing especially if you have a lean purse. Backyard weddings are becoming increasingly popular, and in this article, we will explore how you can save money on your dream backyard wedding.

Wedding Venue

Begin your backyard wedding venue by selecting a place that has an atmosphere you love or has meaning to you. This space could be your fiance’s cottage by the sea, your grandmother’s garden, or even your backyard. Take a stroll around the space and determine if it fits the bill. You need to be certain the wedding venue has enough weather cover as you need to factor in inclement weather. In addition to this, you need to find out if there is an ideal space for dancing, parking space, and washroom facilities.

Food and Drinks

The food choice for your wedding ceremony can be confusing, especially with the multiple choices available. You could tinker with several food ideas, especially considering a backyard family wedding. You could try rustic comfort food, BBQ and sliders, warm food, picnic spreads, and cheese boards. The best part of the menus mentioned above is that they are affordable and easy to prepare yourself.

Attire

Getting married outdoors means you should look as beautiful and blended with nature as possible. Summer weddings require wearing something casual and cool, and you may want to wear some extra clothing when it is winter. Although weather should play a huge role in what you wear, it shouldn’t discourage you from wearing the wedding attire of your dreams. Over 40% of buyers didn’t believe they would regret what they bought, but they did so. In comparison, about 30% of people had opinions before buying but regretted their buying decision.

Decoration of Your Venue

After choosing the space you want to use for your backyard wedding, the next thing would be to figure out the decoration details. Consider centerpieces for tables, strands of old-fashioned outdoor lights, and chair decorations. The cool thing about these items is that they are affordable to buy and easy to make. Consider asking your family and friends if you can borrow items from them and, as such, save money while you give them a chance to contribute to your big day.

For the ceremony proper, you should give your guests seating options. You could borrow or rent chairs and have them lined up in rows so that they will have something comfortable to sit on in your ceremony. If the party lasts longer than dusk, you should consider lighting options to help your guests better enjoy the night. A unique landscaping option for decorating your venue is natural flagstone which could be broken up into layers and used for decoration.

The Perfect Landscaping

Depending on what time of the year you are getting married, you should be able to plan the perfect backyard wedding in little time for less. For instance, you could consider using basic seeding and trimming to make your yard look perfect in springtime. But if you have enough time at your disposal, you could try out a few tips. First, have a designated space for an alter and select a dance space. Additionally, you could get your lawn greened up a bit and plant flowers around it.

The wedding of your dreams shouldn’t cost you an arm and a leg if you know what you are doing. Backyard weddings are the perfect choice for anyone planning a family wedding on a budget, especially if it is properly done.

Gifts for Debt-Free or Money Conscious Couples

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Valentine’s Day is here once again. Many Americans plan to drop some serious money on the holiday. If you and your partner are money conscious or working towards being debt-free like we are, there are some gifts that can show your love and support. Here are five gifts I love for debt-free or money conscious couples.

Give the Gift of a Money Tree

I’m a certified plant lady – I accrued more than 20 while I was pregnant. One of my favorites is the money tree. The money tree represents wealth and is thought to bring you luck in your finances and/or profession. In some cases, it is believed that the money tree brings about a great sense of well-being and even luxury. Ours hangs out in between our desks in the office. It has brought us a fair amount of luck. Plants like the money tree can be a great gift because they will continue to sprout new growth throughout the year. Not to mention, having plants has been proven to benefit people’s moods and increase happiness. So, it makes a great gift.

Pay for Special Budgeting Tools

There are a lot of paid fintech tools on the market. See if the person you are buying for is currently using the free version of any paid app and pay for a few months or even a year. Typically, paid versions of the app unlock new financial tools and additional help. If they use the app on a regular basis, the change can truly make a difference in their finances to have the paid tools available.

Buy a Financial Planner or Journal

If the person you’re shopping for isn’t necessarily tech-savvy or prefers to write things down, a financial planner or journal may be a good gift option. Personally, I write everything from our budget to financial goals down in a planner. So, each year, I spring for a nice one and use it for the next 365 days. Journaling is also something that can help people on a debt-free journey and, honestly, journaling can be therapeutic. Buying a nice planner or journal can be the perfect gift for someone on a journey of their own.

Purchase Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University

This one is a little more expensive than the other gifts listed above, but it is a great gift for money conscious couples. You and your partner can go in on the purchase of the online program together and take the courses. Over the span of the Financial Peace University program, you will both learn more about finance and get on the same page about your money. Giving this kind of gift can draw you two closer together and improve parts of your relationship.  It’s another gift that keeps on giving.

Make a Cash Rose

If money is your love language, make your own cash rose. For this, you decide how much you want to spend. Get the cash together (using small bills is a good idea). Then, watch this YouTube video instruction on making your own cash rose. Your honey will surely appreciate the gesture.

Readers, what do you think of these gift ideas? Do you have any to add?

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What is the Best Way to Manage Financial Stress?

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Throughout my pregnancy, I have been attending yoga classes. Since I started attending these classes a lot of my stress levels are just lower, in general. On top of being good for my physical health, each class has helped improve my mental health as well. I’m less likely to freak out if I can remember the most important part of yoga: to breathe. That got me thinking about how people manage their financial stress and what we do to cope in our own family.

How We Deal With Financial Stress

This isn’t to say you can breathe your way through your financial hardships (though a yoga class or two may help you refocus). However, you can use some things from yoga to help yourself deal with financial stress.

  • Breathe: Sometimes you need to just step back and take a breath. This isn’t the end of the world and a nice cleansing breath can help with your stress levels.
  • Balance: Search for a way to balance out your finances and bring your stress down. Planning helps me a ton!
  • Set your gaze: Consider your goals. Is what you are stressing about really going to hold you back?
  • Drown out distractions: What things are distracting you from reaching your goals? Find a way to drown those things out.
  • Just unplug: Every once in a while, you need to just unplug. Cut off social media, emails, and maybe even your phone for the day. Recenter and come back with a fresh attitude.

Now, my husband doesn’t do yoga. He is more of a jiu-jitsu guy. Thankfully, we have ways of working through our own financial stress together. Normally, he is the calm and collected one. He makes phone calls, mends things when they are broken, and makes the problem (even if temporarily) go away. I am the planner. I sit down and figure out how we can avoid finding ourselves in that situation again.

For many couples and families, this is a great way to manage financial stress. You assign “jobs” to the people in charge of finance. My husband isn’t the best with planning, so bill pay and mapping out our finances each month is my job. He’s a better spender. So, when there is a big purchase to be made, he does the research. It works for us. For the most part, it is about what works for you.

Other Ways to Cope

What works for us won’t necessarily work for you. Thankfully, there are plenty of ways to cope with financial stress. Here are three ways I’ve seen be beneficial for other families.

  1. Have a true understanding of your financial situation. Oftentimes, stress stems from not knowing exactly where you stand financially. Take time to get to know your money and where you stand with your debt and long-term financial goals.
  2. Take a social media detox. Social media can be great, but it can also leave us looking at everyone else’s lives and saying, “That could be me.” People start envying one another and, sometimes, overspend trying to keep up with the Joneses. Turn your social media notifications off for a week (or more). It can do wonders!
  3. Consider counseling. Financial counseling can be a great tool if you are really struggling with managing your stress. Look into low-cost and even free options in your area.

Dealing with financial stress can be a killer. Once you find a way to manage your own stress, it can make a world of difference. You may even find you are meeting more of your goals and seeing more progress in your finances.

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How to Throw a Budget-Friendly Baby Shower

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You may be just as surprised as I was to learn there are actually people who go into debt throwing their own baby shower. I have been checking out Pinterest boards and subreddits and, believe it or not, there are people that really spend thousands for their shower. Insane! We won’t be running our credit card for anything for our celebration. Here is how we plan to throw a budget-friendly baby shower.

The Average Cost of a Baby Shower

Baby showers typically cost between $100 and $1,000. Some showers may cost even more if you are anticipating a large number of people. I read about one couple who expected their shower to cost nearly $4,000! So, what makes up this seemingly astronomical cost?

First, the food people are eating is a huge part of the budget. Many people have their baby shower catered, so you are paying the caterer a “per person” price. This adds up quickly! Then when you factor in the cost of the cake, which can be up to $4 per serving, the price of food for your shower may be startling.

The next largest expense for your baby shower is the location. While some people choose to have it in their home, many people rent out a community center or other space for the shindig. Depending on your location, this can cost $200 and up.

Many people spend a fair amount of money on invitations and decorations as well. Invitations cost anywhere between $0.50 and $1 per invite. Decorations for the party can cost between $50 and $200 or more, depending on the size of the party and how many decorations you need to buy. Not to mention, you’ll need to buy plates, cups, napkins, and silverware as well.

On top of all of this, people generally play games at baby showers. So, you’ll need to purchase what you need for the games as well as prizes. For instance, our shower will have a diaper raffle. For every pack of diapers and/or wipes someone brings, they will be entered into the raffle for one of three prizes. You may also want to include party favors for your guests as well.

Tips for a Budget-Friendly Baby Shower

As you can see, the cost of a baby shower can start to add up really quickly. We have been able to cut costs in a few areas that will save us a bit of money. Here are some tips I’m using to throw a budget-friendly baby shower…

  • Hold it at a time where finger foods are acceptable. We are having our baby shower at 1 p.m. and providing finger foods. I’d suggest checking out some of the Aldi charcuterie boards, which you can put together really cheaply!
  • Have your baby shower somewhere free. We are having our shower in our home, so it’ll be 100% free. If your house isn’t big enough to hold a shower, look for free venues around you. Many parks offer covered picnic areas for events for free or cheap.
  • Get close friends and family to chip in. My mom and a few of my close friends are pitching in for the big things (food, cake, prizes for the games). Talk to your folks to see who might be willing to help.
  • Keep it small! We only invited about 30 people and expect about half of them to show up. Keeping it small will help keep costs low all around.
  • Send e-invites. We didn’t stress sending paper invites out. Instead, we just created a Facebook event and invited everyone that way. Those without Facebook we called or invited in person.
  • Don’t stress decorations. I think we will spend less than $50 total on decorations. Remember, the most important thing is that you spend this time with friends and family.
  • Hit the dollar store. When it comes to plates, napkins, silverware, and some of the prizes, we are hitting our local dollar store. You don’t have to spend an arm and a leg on these items.

Readers, how much did you spend on your baby shower?

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Big News From Our Family!

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Over the past few months, a lot of the blog posts on Our Debt Free Family have been hinting at big changes coming our way. My husband got a new job that he is able to work from home and we’ve been reworking our budget. We’ve been doing all of this in preparation for a huge change coming our way. So, what’s the big news?

*Cue drum roll*

Our Big News

We are expecting our first child!

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This week, we learned we are expecting a baby girl. Both of us are overjoyed with the idea of growing our little family. The first few months of the pregnancy we kept the news quiet between us and a few close family and friends. I was deathly ill for about eight weeks straight and it was exhausting. But, now that the first trimester (and then some) has passed, we are ready to share the news and get down to business.

Now that we know we are expecting a girl, it feels like there are a million and one things to do. People have asked about a registry already, we are looking at expenses and budgeting changes, and things we need to get done before the little one arrives. Not only do we need to get a nursery ready and get everything baby will need, but there are things like getting the car registered and updating our work computers that need to be done as well.

Financial Thoughts

So, that brings me to the financial aspect of our big news…

We have been putting our heads together trying to think about what our major priorities should be as September 2 approaches. Here are some of the bigger expenses and things we are hoping to accomplish over the next four and a half months.

  • Health insurance: I had to purchase health insurance earlier this year to pay for prenatal care. We did not qualify for Medicaid. This is an extra $278 bill each month. We will also need to purchase health coverage for the little one once she arrives.
  • Car repair and taxes: We recently spent a little over $600 on replacing all four tires on our vehicle. That was desperately needed. There are also a few more things we need to get done with the car, including paying our taxes here in North Carolina and getting our plates switched over from Georgia by July.

  • Work computers: Because we are both working from home, we are in need of new computers. Both of the laptops we’ve been working on are clinging on for dear life and need to be retired for travel computers. We will be looking at getting desktops for our in-home office.

More Financial Thoughts

  • Getaway: Next week, we will be going on one of two getaways we have planned before the baby arrives. We won’t be doing much (if any) travel during the first year of her life, so we want to be sure we have two nice trips together before then. The other trip will be planned before July 22, which is my medical cut-off date for travel.
  • Nursery: Of course, we will also be planning out and buying things for the nursery. Much of this will be bought for us. We both have large families that are looking forward to the new addition. It is the first grandchild and the first great-grandchild for much of our family. We are also applying for any and all freebies we possibly can. For example, the insurance company is going to cover the cost of a breast pump (yay). We also started our registry through Amazon, which will send a free Welcome Box with some baby items.

Getting Ready

Looking at that list above is a little daunting when you think about it all fitting into the next four and a half months. However, neither of us has any doubt it is doable with good planning. Most of all, we are looking forward to the arrival of our baby girl. I can’t wait to keep you updated on this process and how we handle everything each step of the way.

Readers, how did you prepare for your first child? What tips do you have to share?

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How to Prepare for Big Life Changes

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Any time there are big changes in our lives, the financial planning aspect of things gives me a bit of anxiety. I begin to think about every penny we will need to make the new shift in our lives go off without a hitch and, guess what? Things almost never go to plan. Not exactly anyway. So, we have had to put some thought into how to prepare for big life changes headed our way.

Huge Changes Coming Our Way

In a few weeks’ time, I hope to be able to share some positive news with you all on the blog. There are some HUGE changes coming our way. They are also changes that will involve some financial planning and saving on our part. As you know, we recently moved into a new home. On top of that, we’ve been going through even more changes that will impact our family in a big way.

Thankfully, my husband recently got a new job. He is able to work from home with me now and his income will greatly assist with these changes. We are aiming to get a substantial amount of money saved and then looking to double up on our debt payments. Hopefully, within the year, we will have our car 100% paid for (that is the goal anyway).

Since we have started planning for this big change coming up in our lives, it got me thinking about how others prepare for big life changes. Of course, there is nothing that works for everyone but there are several common ideas and things most people do when they are prepping for something big.

How to Prepare for Big Life Changes

Depending on what kind of change you are preparing for, the steps to get there will look different. If you are preparing to buy your first home, you will be making some financial sacrifices and also spending a great deal to get ready for that. If the changes you are making are more personal in nature, like quitting cigarettes or getting sober, your steps will look different. However, each of these tips seems to be applicable across the board.

  1. Surround yourself with supportive people. When you are going through something life-changing, you need to build a solid support system. Find people with who you feel comfortable talking about your upcoming changes with who you can rely to be supportive when you need them. In some cases, this may mean financial support or simply emotional support to get through the big change.
  2. Express your feelings often. One big mistake people make when they are going through a big transition in life is not expressing themselves clearly. When you aren’t able to make your own emotions and thoughts known, it becomes difficult to shake them. For instance, if you feel like you have hit a wall with your financial goals and feel stuck, express that frustration to someone you trust. Getting those feelings out will help you tremendously.
  3. Know why you are making the changes you are making. For each small goal you have, know why you are making those changes and how it contributes to the bigger picture. Knowing the “why” behind each move you make can help motivate you.
  4. Be realistic with expectations. Many people hit walls or stop seeing progress because they aren’t realistic with the goals they set. If you are facing a huge life change like we are, it is important that you are down-to-earth with what to expect of yourself and others. Change does not happen overnight.
  5. Allow for difficulty. Nothing ever goes according to plan, not exactly anyway. Make concessions for difficulties that may befall you along the way and don’t let them hold you back. Simply alter your plans to adjust for the bump in the road and move on.
  6. Practice self-care. No matter what, you need to continue to take care of yourself. Practice self-care in whatever way is most rewarding for you (just make sure it doesn’t hinder your progress). For some people, this may be taking time out of the day to unplug and read a book – that is my personal favorite. Others may need to work out or unplug and take a nice bath. Think about how you practice self-care and schedule time for those things while you are going through big changes. This will help you stay on track and keep you sane.

When it comes to how to prepare for big life changes there is no “how-to” guide. You need to find what works best for you mentally, emotionally, physically, and go with that. It may not look the same as what worked for your friends or family, but if it works for you, that is all that matters.

Readers, how have you gone about preparing for big life changes? What was key for you?

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What Is the Real Problem Behind This Couples’ $232000 in Debt?

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Occasionally, I also write on another personal finance website called Saving Advice. The site, which typically gives out financial advice and insights into saving methods, also has a blog section where everyday people can blog about their finances. There are a number of people who have blogged there for over a decade. One of the newest members is what recently caught my attention though.

An American Debt Story

In the original post, the blogger outlined their debt and broke it down into accounts. Immediately, people began to comment on the couple’s astounding debt figures. After having paid off more than $60,000, they remain $232,000 in debt. From the post:

A bit about myself, I’m a thirty-something-year-old woman living in Alaska with her husband who’s in the ARMY and 3 children (16yo girl, 13yo girl, and 4yo boy). I’m a Dave Ramsey enthusiast although I do disagree with some of his teachings (for example, saving $1,000 for emergency fund).

The comment section was full of suggestions on what the family should do as well as other personal stories to help her know that she’s not alone. In fact, a lot of people on the site have paid off six figures in debt. But the real question is how does $232000 in debt accrue?

How Do You Get $232000 in Debt?

First and foremost, if you take a look at the original post (linked above), you will see that the family has FOUR car payments they are in charge of making. This one of the biggest red flags on the list of their debts. They also have tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt. There are also a number of personal loans and student loans listed as well.

All in all, there has been very little reflection (on the part of the blogger) on what got them into this situation, to begin with. They owe payments on a Prius, truck, van, and RV. There is no doubt with three children that the van is likely needed, but the other vehicles are excess. The blogger says that they use the Prius for Doordash, but even the average Doordash salary would not excuse the monthly cost in car payments.

When it comes to “how does this happen,” it is the lack of self-reflection that plays a huge role. When a problem arises, a loan came through for them in an emergency instead of a savings fund. They have also made a lot of unnecessary expensive purchases.

My Thoughts

Of course, I still hold quite a bit of my own debt. We have not been able to make much progress on our debt freedom journey in recent months, but we are able to truly examine our finances. At this time, while she’s made a huge step in blogging about their debt, she hasn’t truly examined their finances.

She lists budgeting as one of her hobbies in the first post. However, she is still budgeting outside of what they actually have coming in. She is budgeting around debt payments and loan money. I think before she truly makes progress beyond the minimum payments she will have to identify what got them there in the first place.

For our family, we continued to go into debt because we overspent or thought we could afford more than we actually could (i.e. higher rent, too high car payments, etc). This is because we lived paycheck-to-paycheck our entire lives. So, when we got paid, it was “treat yourself” day. Because of this, we have to budget a set amount of money for “fun” activities so we don’t splurge. The reasoning behind their family’s debt will likely look different and so will the solution.

Readers, what do you think about this couples’ $232000 in debt? What would you suggest for them? 

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Frugal Date Ideas for All Year Long

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Taking time to spend with your significant other is always a good investment. In our home, we have at least one night per week that cell phones are put down and we just spend time together. It is necessary to maintain our relationship. Sometimes, we like to incorporate some fun date nights too. There are people who might use something like True Pheromones to make themselves extra-appealing to their partner if they want to put them in the mood for an intimate evening in together. However, going out for a date can get pretty expensive, depending on what your plans are. Here are some frugal date ideas that we love.

Frugal Date Night In

My husband and I are both fans of the “date night in,” especially in the post-pandemic world. Some of our favorite things to do at our home cost next to nothing too. Consider adding some of these activities to your plans!

  • Check out your streaming services. If you are like us, you don’t get a chance to watch all of the shows and streaming services we’d like to. Take a moment to check out what you’re subscribed to and make a list for your date night. Curl up with your favorite snacks and settle in for the night. (This is probably our favorite of the frugal date ideas.)
  • Take advantage of a free trial. If there is a movie you’ve been wanting to see or a show you’ve been wanting to binge-watch, take advantage of a free trial on date night. You can start the show or watch the movie free of charge. Just don’t forget to cancel your subscription before you get charged!
  • Play a game of cards or break out the board games. Every once in a while we will pull out a deck of cards and play a few games of Rummy. We also have a few board games we take out of the closet occasionally. These are great, fun ways to spend date night at no cost.
  • Try out Playstation Plus. This service gives you access to a wide variety of different video games. You can try out some new games you’ve never played and have a great time. They offer a free trial and then after that it is $9.95 per month. If you’re both avid gamers, it can be a great cheap date night every month.
  • Make homemade pizza or pick a recipe to try. Cooking in will always be cheaper than ordering food or eating out.
  • Learn something together. We like to seek out documentaries about new things, YouTube videos, and other informational materials and learn new things together. It can give you something new to talk about and is an extremely frugal date night.
  • Get physical. You can get a wide range of workout videos on YouTube. Pull up a yoga class or cardio class to do together.

Other Frugal Date Ideas

Of course, you don’t have to stay in to stick to your budget when it comes to going on a date. There are plenty of frugal date ideas outside the home as well. When the weather is nice, we enjoy some of these on a regular basis.

  • Head to the park.
  • Go on a hike.
  • Rent bicycles or roller skates.
  • Pack a picnic and take a drive.
  • Find a drive-in movie theater.
  • Plant flowers or work in a garden.
  • Search for coupons or deals for local restaurants.

These are just a few of our favorite go-to date ideas, but there are plenty of ways to spend time with your significant other without breaking the bank. Think about what your partner might enjoy doing and find a few frugal dates you’ll love. Readers, do you have any frugal date ideas to add? Leave yours in the comments!

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