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Here’s Why It is Hard to Save Money

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Our family has always struggled a bit with saving money. It seems every time we get an emergency fund established or a little money stowed away, Murphy’s Law kicks in and we have to spend that cash to stay afloat. However, we aren’t the only ones that struggle with this. In fact, most people find it hard to save money. Here’s why…

Is It Really Hard to Save Money?

You may be thinking to yourself, “That sounds like an excuse to just not save.” It’s really not. Saving is hard, especially when you are spreading your focus across multiple financial goals. For us, we are focused on becoming debt-free, saving money for a home, and stacking up our savings. Sometimes, saving takes a backseat.

Not to mention, every time something comes up, we may have to dip into savings to take care of the cost. Of course, this is better than swiping our credit card or taking out a loan, but it makes reaching that three to six-month emergency fund difficult to reach.

All that being said, we aren’t alone. Much of America has a difficult time even saving enough money to cover a $1,000 emergency. That’s pretty nerve-wracking. Many people don’t even save 5% of their take-home income and 20% of Americans don’t save any portion of their income at all. But why?

Why?

In truth, most Americans aren’t saving any money at all because of their own choices. They aren’t willing to scale back or dial down their lifestyle. That isn’t always the case though. There are several factors that contribute to the difficulty of saving money.

  • Rising cost of housing, childcare, education, and healthcare: This is completely out of your control, but everything is going up. With the rising cost of necessities, it is hard to save money.
  • Debt: One of our loan payments is $488 per month. Think about if that was going into savings! Debt is a huge killer when it comes to being able to save.
  • Not making enough money: Your wages simply may not be high enough to stash anything away and cover your basic needs.
  • Lack of organization: Many people don’t track their spending, which can help you identify areas where you might be able to save.
  • Social activities take priority: This is especially hard for younger individuals. Oftentimes, social engagements take a higher priority than your finances (and they shouldn’t). Plan for outings and don’t overdo it.
  • Financial ignorance: Most of what you need to know about finance wasn’t taught in school and parents often fail to teach their kids about managing their finances too.
  • No desire to learn: While you may not have learned young, you can learn how to better manage your money now. You have to want to do it though.
  • Lifestyle inflation: When you get a raise, start saving more money instead of inflating your lifestyle costs.

The best piece of advice I can give you if you are struggling with saving like we often do is to stop comparing yourself to others. This is at the heart of why it is so hard to save money for many people. Unfortunately, when we compare ourselves to others, we wind up overspending and possibly even hindering financial progress altogether. All of this just to keep up with the Joneses. Don’t do it!

Readers, what part of your personal finances do you struggle with most? Why?

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Paying Off Debt vs Saving: Which Is Better?

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A few weeks ago we talked about how you don’t necessarily have to give up investing to further your debt freedom progress. Another hot debate in the finance community is paying off debt vs saving. Should you be stacking up savings if you haven’t paid off all your debt? Dave Ramsey would say no. Get your $1,000 emergency fund in place and focus on your debt payoff efforts. But which is really better?

Paying Off Debt vs Saving

First, let’s talk about why this is such a hot debate. If you’re an avid Dave Ramsey follower, you know paying off debt to be the number one priority as far as your finances go. This is because once all of your debts have been paid, you will have more money freed up to put towards savings, retirement, and investments.

However, this simply doesn’t work for everyone. I don’t know about you, but $1,000 isn’t enough to cover a huge emergency in my life. With a new addition on the way, I’ve been feeling the push to save more than ever. Of course, part of that is definitely getting some things paid off to have more cash flow in general, but actually saving plays a role too.

So, which is truly better? There is honestly a case for both.

The Case for Saving

When it comes to deciding whether you should be saving or paying off debt, there is a good case for saving money. The more cash you have to fall back on in the event of an emergency or major life change, the less likely you will be to rack up more debt. For example, if you have a few month’s expenses set aside, you are less likely to lean on your credit card in hard times.

Similarly, if you are expecting a big change like we are, saving more money may seem appealing. Again, you will have more money stashed away for when things change for you. In our case, having a baby is a huge change, especially from a financial standpoint. When you are facing something like that, stashing away some extra savings is never a bad idea.

The Case for Paying Off Debt

While you are saving, you could certainly be paying off debt with that money. Many people in the debt-free community would argue that savings could be saving you money on interest, etc. That is absolutely true, but it provides less peace of mind and immediate cash on hand in the event you run into a financial emergency. That being said, there is a case for paying off debt instead.

When you focus on paying off debt vs saving you will be able to free up more money on a month-to-month basis. For example, if you are focused on paying off your car, paying that off can free up some serious cash monthly. In our case, paying off our car would mean an extra $488 per month. That would make a huge difference. Arguably, once you pay off these bigger bills, you can start saving more quickly. You can also free up more money to put towards other debts, making even more money available month-to-month.

Bottom Line: Do What’s Best for Your Family

Whether you are on team savings or debt payoff, you should always make whatever decision is best for your family. There is no one-size-fits-all for finance. Personal finance is just that: personal. If having more savings in the bank decreases your anxiety when it comes to your financial situation, stash away some extra money. At the same time, if making progress on your debt freedom goals provides you with more peace, focus on that.

Readers, what side of the fence are you on when it comes to paying off debt vs saving?

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How to Create an Aggressive Savings Plan

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Our family is attempting to save more money in the coming months with some big changes on the horizon. When we started trying to plan for this, we started throwing around some pretty big numbers. However, I know from previous experience these lofty numbers are difficult to reach and focus on. So, how do you create an aggressive savings plan?

How to Create an Aggressive Savings Plan

First and foremost, before you start planning out the perfect savings plan for you and your family, you should research some of the best high-yield savings accounts. These will give you more bang for your buck in terms of interest rates. Once you find a savings account that you want to use, then you can begin crafting the ultimate savings plan.

Set a Specific Savings Goal

You need to have a specific number in mind when you are setting a savings goal. Decide why, or what, you are saving for and focus on that. For example, you want to save $10,000 by the end of the year in preparation for a new baby. This gives a why, an amount, and a period of time in which to meet the goal. Your savings goal may be smaller. For instance, you may need to save $1,000 for an emergency fund by the end of next month. Whatever the goal is, it needs to be specific.

Really Examine Your Finances

When I say really examine your finances, I mean with a fine-tooth comb. You need to know how much money is coming in, what’s going out, and be able to identify unnecessary expenses. When we took a closer look at what we were spending we realized we overspent on our grocery budget every single month. Why? We eat out too much. It is pretty simple, but when you see the numbers behind it (in our cases hundreds of dollars), it can inspire change. That money really starts adding up once you start stacking it in your savings account.

Stop Spending and Find Ways to Grow

When you examine your finances, you’ll likely find things you didn’t know you were wasting money on. Determine where your costs can be decreased and trim those expenses. For instance, if you are trying to save $10,000 by the end of the year, skipping your bi-weekly manicure will probably help you get there. In addition to finding areas in your budget to trim, you should also find new ways to bring in money as well. Look for a side hustle or part-time job to amp up your savings even more.

While saving money may be a top priority for you right now, that doesn’t mean you should cut all of the fun out of your budget. In fact, cutting everything out of your budget is a bad idea and can lead to abandoning your savings plan altogether. Instead, incorporate rewards for meeting goals and milestones into your budget. You should also keep one or two fun things in there as well.

What Makes a Savings Plan Aggressive?

Now, you may be thinking this doesn’t sound very different from any other savings plan, but what makes your plan aggressive is the amount of time and effort you are willing to put in. You may want to save $10,000 in the fastest amount of time possible. To do this, you may decrease your spending, pay down debts and reallocate the funds to savings, and look for additional work to increase your income.

All in all, an aggressive savings plan is all about how aggressive you make it. Some individuals will move out of their home, rent a room, and slum it for a few months to completely overhaul their finances. Other people, myself included, want to find a more comfortable way to master saving.

Be Patient With Your Progress

No matter where you are in your financial journey, patience is key. I have learned throughout my own debt freedom journey and my relationship with finance that when you run out of patience, you also run out of the drive to make your goals happen.

One thing you should always strive to do throughout your own personal journey is learning from your mistakes. When something doesn’t go as planned or things fall through the cracks, really think about why it happened and what you can do to improve. You may not get it on the first, second, or even third try, but not giving up is the important part.

Readers, have you ever created an aggressive savings plan? How much did you save? How much time did it take?

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3 Ways to Hack the 52-Week Money Challenge

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Have you ever heard of a money challenge? It is something the internet thought up a few years ago that helps people meet savings goals (usually within a specific period of time). The original challenge, the 52-week money challenge, helps people save right around $1,400 over the span of a year. However, that method and timeframe don’t work for everyone. If that includes you, here’s how you can hack the 52-week money challenge…

About the 52-Week Money Challenge

First, before we talk about hacking the challenge, you should have a good understanding of what the 52-week money challenge actually is. It was created online to help motivate people to increase and track their savings. Along with it came message boards and forums for support with people doing the same thing. Pretty cool, right?

The challenge also introduced free printable tracking sheets where you can record your weekly savings. It also walks you through how much should be saved each week.

With this challenge, you save an additional $1 per week (i.e. $1 on week one, $2 on week two, $3 on week three, and so on). You can see how this adds up in the graphic below (via Saving Advice).

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How to Hack the 52-Week Money Challenge

“Hacking” an internet challenge like this is fairly easy. All you need to do is figure out what needs to change for the challenge to better suit your financial needs. Here are three ways you can do it…

  1. Change the contribution amounts. For instance, if $1,400 over the span of the year is too little for your savings goals, increase the weekly amount you deposit into savings. If the amount is too much, you can also decrease your contributions. Similarly, you can also switch around your contributions. Many people do the 52-week money challenge in reverse to account for holiday spending at the end of the year.
  2. Switch up your goals. You can also hack the 52-week money challenge by changing its objective. For example, most people use the challenge to save money. Instead, you could use the challenge to pay off debt. So, instead of saving $1 the first week, you’d add $1 to your current debt payments.
  3. Hustle. Lastly, you can “hack” the challenge by creating money to save. Let’s say you’re living paycheck-to-paycheck and there’s absolutely no way you are saving $1,400 this year. To hack that problem, you just need to find a hustle or sell things to create the cash to save.

Other Challenges to Try

Throughout the article, I’ve been referring to the 52-week money challenge, but that is far from the only internet challenge out there to try. No matter what your goals are, financial or otherwise, there is probably a challenge out there for you. Take a look at these other money challenges you may want to try…

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10 Frugal Date Ideas for Valentine’s Day

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Part of being on a debt-free journey means finding ways to cut costs and spend less. With Valentine’s Day coming up, my hubby and I are brainstorming ways to celebrate. Here are a few frugal date ideas we’ve come up with.

Frugal Date Ideas for Every Couple

We both have trouble not spending money on each other. When we have extra cash, we love buying one another gifts and treating each other to something special. However, this can cause serious budgeting issues. Because of this, we’ve had to get a little creative to save money.

1. Make Pizzas at Home

Something my husband and I love to do is make pizza at home for date night. It only takes about 25 minutes and keeps you from spending too much eating out or ordering in. Plus, we have a great recipe that keeps costs low too.

For the dough: 

  • 1/2 cup of greek yogurt
  • 2/3 cup of self-rising flour

Mix these together to form pizza dough (it makes a single-serve pizza). Roll the dough out on a floured pan and bake at 400 for 10 minutes. Take the baked dough out of the oven, add sauce and your desired toppings. Put the pizza back in for an additional 15 minutes.

2. Pillow Fort Movie Night

Because we are kids at heart, we still enjoy a good pillow fort. The best thing about that is it literally costs nothing. We also have Amazon Prime and other subscriptions that don’t cost us anything extra. So, we can pitch our pillow fort, curl up and watch a new movie or binge a TV series. Super cheap and so much fun!

3. Play Games

Both my husband and I love to play cards. We also own several video games we can play together. Find a game you both enjoy, buy it (and some snacks) and just play around for the evening. If you’re competitive with each other, like we are, you can even hold small tournaments. It can be great fun.

4. Go Hiking

I love going for a good hike or a nice walk. Grab your significant other and head outside. Walk around your neighborhood, drive to the park, or find a nearby trail to hike. It is a great way to spend time together and chat.

5. Get Ice Cream

Ice cream is personally a favorite treat of mine. If you live close to a creamery, set out on a walk for some ice cream. You can also hop in the car and grab a sundae to split. Either way, ice cream is a delicious and frugal date.

6. Find a View and Enjoy it Together

This is one of my favorite frugal date ideas and something we do on a regular basis. Normally, we grab food at a drive-thru (usually super cheap) and drive somewhere with a great view. We eat together in the car, listen to a podcast or show, talk, and enjoy our surroundings.

7. Head to the Dog Park

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You all know we have a pup who loves going on walks and being social with other dogs. If you’re a dog lover too, consider heading to the dog park for a date. You and your partner can enjoy the company of all the dogs, get your pet some exercise, and meet other people. It is a fun date that you can do completely for free.

8. Have a Nerf Gun War

Nerf guns are fairly cheap and something you can keep around. Grab a pair of guns (and ammo) and stage a war in your home or outside. This is unbelievably fun and relatively cheap as far as dates go.

9. Scope Out Free Things in Your Area

Chances are, there is something free going on nearby. Look for festivals, fairs, museums, and free events to visit. You and your partner will be able to walk around the event, have fun, and spend little-to-no money.

10. Treat Each Other to Massages

Massage oil can be purchased fairly cheaply. All you need is that and a couple of candles to set the mood. Treating one another to massages can be romantic and give you a chance to talk to your spouse or significant other about their day.

Readers, do you have any fun frugal date ideas you enjoy on a regular basis? Share them with me in the comments. 

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How To Minimize Costs Following A Car Accident

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A car accident can be a traumatic and costly event. Depending on the severity of the crash, it can cause severe harm and/or death. While accidents are unexpected and happen within seconds, the future impact on someone’s life can be a serious emotional and financial strain. No matter how draining an accident can be, it is important that you are proactive to avoid present and future costs.

Seek Hospital Attention

A common mistake that people make is not seeking medical attention following an accident to try to save time or money. The shock and adrenaline running through your body immediately after a car accident can cause you not to realize how badly you have been injured. Injuries can then appear at a later time in the future. These medical costs can be pricey if you have to pay out of your own pocket. Seeing a doctor is well-advised because you will be able to be checked on to determine whether you have been seriously wounded. Additionally, your injuries will be documented, so you will have proof of that injury if you choose to pursue a lawsuit.

Receive Legal Assistance

Legal assistance is always recommended following a car accident. Most attorneys today offer free initial consultations, so you’ll have nothing to lose for simply reaching out to a lawyer to explain what happened. A personal Injury attorney will be able to review exactly what happened and give you their professional opinion on the merits of a potential lawsuit that could compensate you for your incurred expenses.

Which Lawyer Should You Hire?

In the future, a car accident on your driving record will likely raise your insurance premium even if it’s months after a small “fender bender.” If you feel that it was not your fault, you should not have to endure increased costs or the repercussions that follow. Financial repercussions following a car accident can be extremely high, but they can sometimes be alleviated when you get help from a legal professional like a workers compensation lawyer Richmond to advocate for you.  If you are in New England consider Schafer Law – Boston MA, they have excellent service and return your calls promptly.  If you are in New York State, we recommend Obrien and Ford.  Obrien and Ford is a Buffalo car accident law firm which specialized in accident litigation.

Avoid Social Media

Most people have social media today such as Facebook and Twitter to connect with friends and family. It is easy to share news (good and bad) over these platforms. However, you need to always keep in mind that anything you post on the internet can (and likely will) be viewed by third parties, such as insurance companies that would otherwise compensate you. When you talk about private matters publicly, you risk having your words twisted around, misconstrued, and used against your insurance claim. Although posting on social media has become second nature to many people in 2019, it is smarter to refrain from sharing when it comes to updates that involve legal matters.

Have Good Insurance

Although there are many different auto insurances out there, not all are created the same. You may think you are receiving a good low-cost deal, only to realize that you got what you paid for. On the other hand, you may be paying too much but missing adequate coverage. People usually find out that their insurance isn’t up to par at the worst possible times (unfortunately, when they need their insurance the most -after a car accident). Make sure you review exactly what you’re paying for, what your state’s standards are, and keep in mind that the cheapest insurance isn’t always the best kind.

The Great Debate: Dip Into the Emergency Fund or Take on New Debt?

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In a “debt freedom” community, it is hard to ever feel good about taking on new debt. I cringe at the idea of adding anything onto our current payments, but an emergency has happened. Now we are finding ourselves wondering, should we bottom out our emergency fund or take on new debt?

Cons of Dipping Into the EF

We recently moved to Atlanta from Charlotte, which costed a bit more than we anticipated. Because we are far from our family and friends, our main goal was to pad our emergency fund and leave it there. If anything happens, we can no longer call someone to come help. We have to rely on ourselves 100 percent.

That being said, after a visit with the dentist, I need all four of my wisdom teeth out. The bottom two are threatening my ability to breathe and the top two are causing my sinuses to swell (it is becoming an emergency). I got antibiotics, which helped the swelling but I need to have oral surgery.

We don’t have health insurance yet from my husband’s new job, and we don’t know if purchasing it will be worth the money honestly. So, for this, I have to pay out of pocket. After doing some research, I realized this will likely cost between $800 and $1,000 (our entire emergency fund).

While I don’t really want to take on new debt, dipping into our emergency fund would make us both pretty uneasy. We’d have nothing to fall back on.

To Take on New Debt or Not…

After chatting with the oral surgeon, I inquired about a possible payment plan. They don’t do anything in-house but I could apply for a Care Credit Card. The words “credit card” send chills up my spine, but if it made it possible for us to have peace of mind, I think it would be worth it.

Now, I have to be approved for the credit (which is up in the air), but if it is paid in full within six months, I’ll pay zero interest. Paying $800-$1,000 in six months will be no issue for us, but adding another thing to pay each month is causing some anxiety.

When it comes down to it, if I’m approved, we will go the payment route, even though it means taking on new debt. Sometimes peace of mind and your health come before your financial goals. We’ll come to terms with that.

Have you had to take on new debt for an emergency? 

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If You Want to Save More in 2019, Try This 12-Week Challenge

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Saving is a huge part of becoming (and remaining) debt free. If you don’t have an emergency fund things can pop up and cause you to rack up some serious debt. Similarly, you can go into debt buying things if you don’t save money for big events like birthdays and Christmas. But, saving money is hard. Really hard.

Thankfully, the internet has come up with fun, catchy challenges to make you more financially aware and help you save money. After looking at some of the different challenges, I’ve decided to create my own 12-week challenge for savings.

Savings Challenges

About five years ago savings challenges began popping up on the internet. First, it started with the 365-Day Money Challenge. This challenge lasts throughout the year, as the name suggests, and helps you put aside small sums of money each day. The first day starts out with you saving just $0.01.

Next, is the 52-Week Money Challenge. Like the 365-day challenge, it lasts the entire year. However, this challenge ends with a larger amount in savings and focuses on putting money away weekly. The first week, people participating in the challenge put $1 into savings and work their way up to $52 by the end of the year.

Both of these are easy and help people who aren’t so great at managing their money or saving get some cash put away (even if it is only a penny at a time). Many people have been wildly successful at saving this way. So much so that they’ve put other twists on it, like the Bi-Weekly Money Challenge, Reverse 52-Week Money Challenge, and the Mega Money Challenge.

My 12-Week Challenge

For the most part, each of these challenges takes an entire year. If you’re also actively trying to pay off debt it can be overwhelming trying to put money into savings while effectively snowballing what you owe. That’s what got me thinking about a savings challenge with a shorter timeframe: 3 months.

Here is what I got figured out for a 12-week challenge…

  • Week 1: $100 total
  • Week 2: $250 total
  • Week 3: $350 total
  • Week 4: $500 total
  • Week 5: $600 total
  • Week 6: $750 total
  • Week 7: $850 total
  • Week 8: $1,000 total
  • Week 9: $1,150 total
  • Week 10: $1,250 total
  • Week 11: $1,400 total
  • Week 12: $1,550 total

For the first week, we will start by putting $100 into savings. Then, the second week, we will increase our contribution to $150 (making our total savings $250). Throughout the 12 weeks, we will alternate between putting $100 and $150 into savings. The fluctuation will account for the weeks we have “additional” expenses like health/beauty supplies or cleaning items around the house.

We are going to attempt this challenge at the beginning of 2019 and we’d love for you to join us! Comment below and let me know how you plan to attack savings next year!

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Our Savings Challenge Update

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The last personal update I put on the site had a ton of good news and this post won’t be much different. We’ve been tackling our personal savings challenge and getting back on top of bills. All is well!

The New Job

As you know, my other half was out of work from early June until two weeks ago. He started his new job on October 22 and is making a great wage. Also, he gets paid WEEKLY, which will definitely help us budget and save. Until we know how much he will be bringing home each week we aren’t doing any planning around that income.

Our Personal Savings Challenge

That being said, we have started stacking up a little bit of money into our savings account. Right now, it sits at $206.96 and we expect to be able to add money into savings every week on Friday. If that’s the case, we should be able to reach our goal of $1,000 saved in about a month’s time (yay).

A great motivating factor behind this is the fact that once we get this cash saved we won’t have to worry about the next time something happens (because it always does). Instead of racking up more credit card or loan debt, we will have a little money stashed away. This will help further our long-term goal of being debt-free.

Saving $1,000 in a month isn’t possible for everyone though. So, how should you decide what savings challenge or plan is right for your family?

Setting a Savings Goal For Your Family

Start small. If saving $1,000 in about four weeks time seems unmanageable, that’s okay. There are plenty of savings challenges that help people get in the habit of saving. Even if you’re only able to save up pennies a day it stacks up quickly. Consider trying out something like the 365 Day Money Challenge or the 52 Week Money Challenge. Both of these help you save money over the span of a year.

Consider paying off more debt to save. One great way to save money is to pay off debt. For instance, we paid off an account in late October that is saving us $320 per month! We are currently using that to snowball other debt but once we are done snowballing, that cash will go right into the bank.

Be innovative. Saving money doesn’t necessarily mean you are making money and putting it right in the bank. Some people save money by taking on a different kind of challenge. For example, a “no spend” challenge where you don’t spend any money for a certain period of time can help you save. You may also be able to stack up savings by selling things around your home.

November is going to be a great month for our finances and I’m excited to continue to keep you all updated here. What is your financial outlook for the coming month?

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How to Avoid Catastrophic Health Care Costs for Your Parents

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According to the Kaiser Family Foundation (KFF), “About a quarter (26 percent) of U.S. adults ages 18-64 say they or someone in their household had problems paying or an inability to pay medical bills in the past 12 months. Now think about these same statistics as people age. With age, health care needs and costs tend to increase. This potentially means more personal indebtedness for those with health care issues.

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