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My Guilty Pleasure (Plus How Much I Spend on It Every Month)

March 4, 2022 | Leave a Comment

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Every girl has her “thing.” Some ladies like to get their nails done every week or every other week. Others like to have their hair professional cut and dyed. Me? I really just like books. Like every “guilty pleasure” though, it costs us money. So, I decided to sit down and see exactly how much I spend on books every month.

My “Clever” Husband Noted My Books in a Recent Post

If you didn’t know, my husband is the Clever Dude. Recently, he posted a blog about how much hobbies cost and mentioned my “book habit.” Here’s what he had to say…

She’d happily run away with the beast from Beauty and the Beast just for a chance to get a minute in that library.

Folks, he’s not wrong. I really do love books. There is a line in my budget for Audible/Amazon/books. However, as with anyone trying to improve their finances, I read my husband’s post and decided to take a look at how much my book addiction costs me annually. Drew estimated the cost to be about $100 total, which would mean I’m spending $1,200 per year on books.

As great as that sounds, I don’t have a book collection surrounding me in my office right now. So, how much am I really spending on books?

So, How Much Does My Book Habit Really Cost?

Honestly, it varies from month to month so much. Sure, there have been months where I spent more than others. I’ll come home with a stack of books from the store one month and only use my Audible credit the next. When it comes to solid monthly costs I spend $25 monthly on Amazon book services (Audible and Kindle Unlimited). That equates to about $300 per year on digital books alone.

When it comes to physical books on my shelf, I have plenty. But, as Ariel from The Little Mermaid sang at the top of her lungs, I WANT MORE! Most of my collection is paperback, so they don’t cost as much as their hardcover counterparts. I also buy all of my books secondhand using ThriftBooks or the fantastic used bookstores around me. There are people that will buy a book new, read it once, and sell it back to the store. Most of the reads on my shelf cost between $3 and $25.

At the end of the day, my annual spending on books probably lands closer to $1,000 in total. Of course, I have others hobbies, but most of them are relatively frugal. I have a lot of plants in my home, but most were gifts and caring for them isn’t too expensive. Yoga, hiking, and kayaking are all things I’m passionate about too. Each of these things doesn’t cost a ton of money though.

When you combine all of those activities, I probably am spending about $900 annually. There are some folks in the debt-free community that wouldn’t spend a penny on new books until their debt is paid off. I think life is worth living, experiencing, and enjoying though. So, there will always be a line in my budget for my hobbies.

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Filed Under: Budgeting

How to Cover Dental Emergencies

February 5, 2022 | Leave a Comment

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It never fails. Things seems to be going great and then you are hit with something that costs an arm and a leg. For me, last month, the unexpected costs were related to dental emergencies. If you don’t already know, dental insurance is a racket. So, when it comes to covering the cost of an emergency, it usually falls on you. How do you cover it if you don’t have the cash upfront?

Types of Dental Emergencies

Believe it or not, just because it seems urgent to you doesn’t mean your situation is a dental emergency. There is a set of criteria the dentist uses in order to decide whether or not your problem is an emergency or not. Some common dental emergencies include:

  • Unexplainable toothache – this is your body’s way of telling you there is something wrong in your mouth
  • Swollen jaw or mouth – swelling in the jaw or mouth may indicate infection
  • Exposed nerves – when this happens it can be extremely painful and needs attention immediately
  • Missing tooth – if they are contacted quickly the dentist may be able to preserve the tooth
  • Missing filling – without the filling your tooth can easily break or chip
  • Broken crown – any broken dental work in your mouth needs fixed as soon as possible
  • Abscessed tooth – a tooth abscess is an infection and needs medical attention
  • Food stuck – being unable to remove food from your teeth is annoying but it can cause infection and even shift your teeth if stuck too long

At the end of the day, your dentist will be able to tell you whether or not the situation is an emergency. They will usually be able to get you in within 24 hours for issues that need immediate attention. That being said, dental work is crazy expensive. How do people pay for this stuff?

How to Cover the Cost of Unexpected Dental Work

When it comes to covering the cost of dental emergencies, the numbers can be steep. For instance, I don’t have dental insurance. Because of this, I have to pay out of pocket for dental services. I pay $234 for “in-house insurance” with my dentist. This covers two cleanings a year, all x-rays, and discounts off any other services. However, it didn’t cover my deep cleaning gum therapy last Friday. The discounted bill that I paid out of pocket was $785. They drew up a plan for me to have all four wisdom teeth extracted as well (another $1,700 at some point down the road). Thankfully, I was able to get this paid, but if you are looking for ways to cover these astronomical prices, take note of these options.

  • Inquire about making payments: Smaller privately-owned practices may allow you to make payments on the services you receive. Ask about any payment options the office provides.
  • CARE Credit: CARE Credit is a credit card that you can use for medical services. If you get a CARE Credit card it can help you pay for anything medical, not just dental services. Be wary though, this is another line of credit that you’ll need to pay off.
  • Dental schools: One hygienist talked to me about going to a dental school for some of the work I needed done. If that is something you are comfortable with doing, check for dental schools in your area. They will give you huge discounts on services so their students can get the practice they need.

As a last resort option, you can always borrow money or get a small loan for dental emergencies. After all, anything that impacts your health is important enough to invest in.

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How to Be Frugal With a Newborn

November 26, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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There is no doubt that having a baby absolutely changes your life. It is a challenge to adjust to such a huge change and maintain progress on financial goals, let alone stay on budget. Needless to say, our monthly budget has been looking rather neglected and ignored recently. This has led us to look for ways to be frugal with a newborn and make the most of our money.

Is It Possible to Be Frugal With a Newborn?

The biggest cost for our family since having a baby has been food. Sometimes you are just too exhausted to cook. So, we wind up ordering food or hitting the drive thru so that I can continue working or tend to a crying child. It’s understandable and we’ve tried to not be too hard on ourselves for it. But it is money wasted and that will always bother me.

That being said, it is possible to be frugal with a newborn. You simply need to find where your problems areas are and focus on improving there to be successful at it. Here’s how…

How to Be Frugal With a Newborn

There are a few steps you need to take to being able to be frugal with a newborn. Frugality is more than just looking for the best deal or pinching pennies. You have to consider long-term wear items and contributing financial factors.

  1. As I just mentioned, you need to be able to identify what your problem areas are. For us, we overspend on easy food. Think about how you can resolve the issue. For example, our family sticks to our grocery budget better if we meal prep and plan. It takes a little additional time but it will save us hundreds per month. Similarly, when our newborn starts eating different foods, we will make her meals as well to help save money.
  2. Invest in quality items. Like I said, frugality isn’t all about pinching pennies. If you are going to use an item every single day or with your children in the future, spend a little extra money. It will keep you from having to buy it again. You may even be able to resell it once you’re done using it.
  3. Hit the consignment shops. Buying secondhand clothing and other items is a great way to be frugal with a newborn and kids in general. They outgrow their clothes and toys so fast, so why spend a ton of money on those things? Not to mention, some stores will allow you to sell your child’s items for a store credit or cash.
  4. Don’t stress experiences now. Until they are older, you shouldn’t spend too much money on experiences for your child. Of course, you want to have those memories but they won’t remember much. As a newborn, they won’t remember anything. Save your money and put it aside for creating memories when they’re a bit older.

These are just a few things we’ve discussed that will help us be more frugal with our newborn and stay on track. What are some of the ways you have saved money with children?

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How We Financially Prepare for the Holiday Season

November 19, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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The holidays are swiftly approaching. It’s hard to believe we will be celebrating our first Thanksgiving with our little one next week! For many people, this is a stressful time of year. Most of us have more social engagements than usual. On top of that, we are spending more money than we normally do, possibly traveling, and probably not eating the best. Many people find themselves biting their nails over the cost of presents and celebrations. Here is how our family tries to prepare for the holiday season.

Confession: I’m Buddy the Elf

If you’ve seen the Will Ferrell movie Elf, you know Buddy. I am him, he is me. Christmas time is one of my favorite times of year (I’m also a huge fan of Halloween). I simply love the season of giving, family time, baking, colder weather, traditions. It is important to me to be able to spread my cheer each year. However, it is also extremely important we stay within our budget each year. Only a cotton-headed ninny muggins would go into debt buying presents, right?

While we certainly don’t plan to put any gifts on credit this year, many Americans do. In fact, more than 21% of Americans say they will go into debt buying Christmas gifts. About 29% of shoppers say they’ll go into debt but they pay it all off in full with their tax returns. In general, people are willing to go about $1,400 in debt just to celebrate the holidays. For our family, wracking up debt on gifts just simply isn’t in the cards and it shouldn’t ever be, honestly.

Establishing New Traditions

Because Christmas is such an important time of year for me, we want to establish family traditions. One thing we are going to try to do is work in a lot of low-cost or free activities into our holiday traditions. For instance, there is a giant village about an hour from our home that has an amazing Christmas lights display. We will likely pack some food, hot chocolate, and get in the car to see the lights each year. This is little cost to us and a great tradition.

We will also be doing low-cost crafts.  This is something I always did with my godchildren before. Each year, we plan a night where all our parent friends can get together with their kids and do some type of holiday craft. I also usually bake cookies for them to decorate. The entire event typically costs less than $50 and is so much fun. It is also a great tradition to keep (kind of like a Friendsgiving of sorts). We’ve also been considering doing things like volunteering and family secret Santa when our little one is a little older too.

Another thing I’ve seen online this year is people hitting the dollar store for their decor. This is great way to switch up themes and color schemes from year to year at a low cost. I’ve seen some folks on TikTok decorate their tree for less than $35. That’s pretty amazing! So, in essence, we are looking to keep costs as low as possible by establishing some low-cost traditions and focus on the reason for the season.

How Do You Prepare for the Holiday Season?

As always, personal finance is personal. If you are someone who takes out a loan every year and it works for you, keep doing what works for you. If you’re like me and start the countdown for Christmas on December 26, saving and planning throughout the year, that’s okay too. You are doing what works best for you and your family.

At the end of the day, it really isn’t about the amount of money you spend. Focus on spending quality time with your family this season. Those are the memories they’ll keep forever anyway. Happy Holidays!

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How to Create a Bi-Weekly Budget

July 9, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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There are a number of budgeting methods out there. Thankfully, you can always cater your budget to what your current needs are. For the most part, people find it easiest to set up their budget around when they get paid. Because many people get paid bi-weekly, the bi-weekly budget set up is the most common. Here’s how to set one up.

Different Budgeting Methods

When it comes down to it, there are five different types of budgeting methods to choose from. Depending on where you are in your personal financial journey, each has its perks.

  1. Line item budget: This type of budget is what people generally think of when they imagine a budgeting system. Think excel sheet with different expenses on each line. A line-item budget can be detailed and is generally good for beginners to get an idea of their expenses and incoming cash.
  2. Proportional budget: Proportional budgeting has you divide your budget into three main categories: needs, wants, and savings. Then you assign a percentage to each category. Typically, your needs and savings should be the highest percentages while you keep the “wants” relatively low.
  3. “Pay yourself first” budget: You’ve probably heard personal finance blogger after personal finance blogger telling you to pay yourself first. This budgeting method is built around that idea. You decide that you are going to save a certain percentage of each paycheck, let’s say 25%. Then you build the rest of your budget around what is leftover.
  4. Envelope budget: The envelope system is pretty old school. To do this, you have a set amount of money designated for each budget category and you put that cash into envelopes. In the digital age, you can do this by setting up different “envelopes” via online banking. The goal of this method is to make the cash in each envelope last throughout the entire month.
  5. Zero-sum budget: The zero-sum budget is what we will be looking at for our bi-weekly budget setup. At the end of each month, you will have spent all of the incoming money you have. Now, that doesn’t mean you will be spending frivolously. You will still have a line for savings and potentially even your investing contributions.

The Bi-Weekly Budget

So, how do you set up a bi-weekly budget?

Depending on your own personal needs, a bi-weekly budget may not work for you. You may benefit from a weekly or monthly setup more than bi-weekly, especially if you get paid more (or less) often. For us, we have our main income come in every two weeks and we set up a zero-based budget to make the most of those paychecks. Here’s how we set it up…

  1. First, print out a calendar or buy a planner. We use a planner for ours. This makes things more visual.
  2. Start plugging in your expenses to the calendar. Think about what expenses you have each month and how they are divided up throughout the month.
  3. Take varying expenses into account as well. If you have regular recurring expenses that aren’t on a monthly basis, make sure you take note of them and plan for them accordingly. The best way to do this is to set money aside into a sinking fund for these.
  4. Save! You should always have a line item for savings. Whether you are building an emergency fund or sinking funds, save some money out of each check and put it in your budget.
  5. Track your spending. Once you have what you think is a good budget in place, begin to track your spending to be sure your budget is accurate and will work for you.

Choose What Works For You

The last item in setting up a bi-weekly budget is possibly the most important. You have to choose a budgeting method that will work for you. Track your spending and get familiar with your finances. Doing this will ensure you are being realistic in your expectations. Similarly, if you are paid on a weekly or monthly basis, a bi-weekly system may not be the best option for you. Take all of your personal needs, financial goals, and expenses into account to find the best budgeting method for you.

Readers, what budgeting method do you use?

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How to Throw a Budget-Friendly Baby Shower

June 25, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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You may be just as surprised as I was to learn there are actually people who go into debt throwing their own baby shower. I have been checking out Pinterest boards and subreddits and, believe it or not, there are people that really spend thousands for their shower. Insane! We won’t be running our credit card for anything for our celebration. Here is how we plan to throw a budget-friendly baby shower.

The Average Cost of a Baby Shower

Baby showers typically cost between $100 and $1,000. Some showers may cost even more if you are anticipating a large number of people. I read about one couple who expected their shower to cost nearly $4,000! So, what makes up this seemingly astronomical cost?

First, the food people are eating is a huge part of the budget. Many people have their baby shower catered, so you are paying the caterer a “per person” price. This adds up quickly! Then when you factor in the cost of the cake, which can be up to $4 per serving, the price of food for your shower may be startling.

The next largest expense for your baby shower is the location. While some people choose to have it in their home, many people rent out a community center or other space for the shindig. Depending on your location, this can cost $200 and up.

Many people spend a fair amount of money on invitations and decorations as well. Invitations cost anywhere between $0.50 and $1 per invite. Decorations for the party can cost between $50 and $200 or more, depending on the size of the party and how many decorations you need to buy. Not to mention, you’ll need to buy plates, cups, napkins, and silverware as well.

On top of all of this, people generally play games at baby showers. So, you’ll need to purchase what you need for the games as well as prizes. For instance, our shower will have a diaper raffle. For every pack of diapers and/or wipes someone brings, they will be entered into the raffle for one of three prizes. You may also want to include party favors for your guests as well.

Tips for a Budget-Friendly Baby Shower

As you can see, the cost of a baby shower can start to add up really quickly. We have been able to cut costs in a few areas that will save us a bit of money. Here are some tips I’m using to throw a budget-friendly baby shower…

  • Hold it at a time where finger foods are acceptable. We are having our baby shower at 1 p.m. and providing finger foods. I’d suggest checking out some of the Aldi charcuterie boards, which you can put together really cheaply!
  • Have your baby shower somewhere free. We are having our shower in our home, so it’ll be 100% free. If your house isn’t big enough to hold a shower, look for free venues around you. Many parks offer covered picnic areas for events for free or cheap.
  • Get close friends and family to chip in. My mom and a few of my close friends are pitching in for the big things (food, cake, prizes for the games). Talk to your folks to see who might be willing to help.
  • Keep it small! We only invited about 30 people and expect about half of them to show up. Keeping it small will help keep costs low all around.
  • Send e-invites. We didn’t stress sending paper invites out. Instead, we just created a Facebook event and invited everyone that way. Those without Facebook we called or invited in person.
  • Don’t stress decorations. I think we will spend less than $50 total on decorations. Remember, the most important thing is that you spend this time with friends and family.
  • Hit the dollar store. When it comes to plates, napkins, silverware, and some of the prizes, we are hitting our local dollar store. You don’t have to spend an arm and a leg on these items.

Readers, how much did you spend on your baby shower?

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Low-Cost Ways to Celebrate Mother’s Day

May 7, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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This Sunday is Mother’s Day and it is my first as an expecting mother. It is also the first in a couple of years that I will actually be able to see my mother and grandmother during the weekend. Most of us are on a budget these days, so we’ve been digging around for some low-cost ways to celebrate as well as frugal gift ideas. Here’s how we are spending the holiday.

Low-Cost Ways to Celebrate

The best way to save money on your Mother’s Day celebration and other get-togethers throughout the year is by hosting a potluck-style event. This year, we will all be bringing something over to my mom’s for our meal together. I was in charge of bringing a dessert, which is always a relatively low-cost part of the meal. I’ll be bringing cookies and a pie. Here are a few more ideas for low-cost ways to celebrate.

  • Have the party later. Typically, having your celebration the week after the actual holiday can help save you some money. All of the Mother’s Day gifts and cards will be on sale next week, saving you some cash. You will also miss the rush of people at restaurants and other events, which could potentially save you money as well.
  • Scope out deals and freebies. This is another great way to save money on your celebration. Every year there are retailers and restaurants that offer deals and freebies for Mother’s Day. In some cases, you may even be able to score mom a free meal.
  • Create memories instead of buying things. If you are truly focused on finding low-cost ways to celebrate, finding ways to create memories instead of spending money is a good route to go. Do free activities with her like visiting a park or find cheap, fun things to do with her instead of dropping money on a big gift. Chances are, these activities will mean more to her anyway.
  • Start new free (or cheap) traditions. For instance, we used to go on a walk after big meals together (just me and mom). These walks are a memory I’ll always have with her. Look for some traditions you can start with your mom this year that don’t cost much if anything at all.
  • Do lunch instead of dinner. If you are going out to eat, lunch is always cheaper than dinner. You can save a good bit of money by heading to a Mother’s Day breakfast or lunch instead of a dinner out.

Small Gifts

Another way we’ve managed to keep costs down this Mother’s Day is by limiting the amount we are spending on gifts to under $20 per person. It may not seem like a lot, but the gifts we’ve picked out are meaningful. They each also signify each of our mother’s “graduation” into grandmotherhood with the coming of our new child (something each of them is excited about).

All in all, the best thing you can do to keep your Mother’s Day celebration low-cost is by setting a budget and sticking to it. This goes for all of the holidays throughout the year. If you are strict with the budget you have set for your celebration, you’ll be golden.

Readers, how much do you budget for Mother’s Day each year?

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How Much Does It Cost To Have a Baby?

April 30, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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There are a lot of expenses that should be considered when you have a little one on the way. Prenatal care, the cost of delivery, and then the cost of taking care of your child should all be factored into your budget. So, how much does it cost to have a baby and how can you prepare?

Cost of Prenatal Care

Prenatal care is the first set of expenses you will face when having a baby. The costs associated with prenatal care can vary wildly based on your medical history, special needs, and choices you make throughout the prenatal phase. For instance, if you decide to have genetic testing done, it can increase the overall cost of your prenatal care. Similarly, if you are tested for gestational diabetes and need insulin to maintain your blood sugar, that will impact the cost as well. If you have a difficult pregnancy and require more care than others, this will also increase expenses associated with prenatal care.

Prenatal visits cost between $100 and $150 each and there are around 14 visits throughout your pregnancy. The average total cost lands around $2,000. Without insurance, you can expect to spend between $95 and $200 per visit. However, some appointments where lab work is performed can cost as much as $800. Most insurance companies will pay between 80% and 95% of these costs. So, if you have insurance, you may pay about $15 out of pocket for each visit.

The insurance I have only cover 60% of these visits though. At the end of it, I will be paying $1,060 out-of-pocket for my own prenatal care, possibly more depending on how the pregnancy progresses. If you’re in the same boat, don’t worry! Your doctor will likely have a payment plan available for prenatal care costs. I am paying $278 per month for insurance and $260 a month out-of-pocket directly to the doctor’s office.

Delivery Costs

One of the bigger expenses, of course, is the delivery of your new child. This is not included in your prenatal care costs. For patients without insurance, the cost of a natural vaginal delivery can range from $9,000 to $17,000, depending on your location. If you need to have a C-section or there are complications with your delivery, this can increase the cost to somewhere between $14,000 and $25,000. Other services that may add money to your total will be the induction of labor with drugs and whether or not you have a private room for aftercare.

Individuals with insurance may still have to pay at least a four-figure balance after delivery. The out-of-pocket costs can range from $1,500 to $3,000, but they can very well reach your out-of-pocket maximum for the year. For my insurance plan, the maximum out-of-pocket cost for the year is $6,000. I may very well reach that, depending on the cost of delivery and any unforeseen costs throughout the process.

These delivery costs only cover the cost of caring for the mother though. Your baby will also receive a separate bill. This bill will range from $1,500 to $4,000 for a healthy baby delivered at term. If your baby is premature or has any health complications at birth, this bill can increase significantly.

Cost of the First Year of Life

Beyond delivery and prenatal costs, you will need to think about the other “unseen” expenses of having a new baby. The average middle-income family in the United States can expect to spend about $12,000 on their child during the first year of life. By age two, this increases by about $500 annually.

In the beginning, you can expect to spend about $50 per week on diapers alone. Throughout the first year, this can rack up to an astounding $3,000. So, if you are invited to someone’s baby shower, they really do appreciate receiving those diapers. Oh, and new moms, if you find you have too many of one size, you can take them back. Huggies and Pampers will be accepted at any major retailer to exchange for a different size. If you receive store-specific diapers, you will need to return them there.

On top of the cost of diapers during the first year, new parents typically wind up spending $6,000 on other baby items such as the crib, strollers, car seats, and other big-ticket items to get ready for the new baby. Talk to experienced parents and get an idea of what you really need. You may be focusing on things that aren’t going to get all that much use, to begin with.

How Much Does It Cost To Have a Baby?

All of the costs above considered, to have a baby and get them through their first year of life, you could very well end up spending $50,000. Depending on your insurance plan, the help you receive from friends and family, and other financial factors, this could be dramatically less. There are also a number of resources you can use to decrease the overall cost of prenatal care and delivery. For instance, using a midwife instead of a gynecologist for delivery could save you about 30% of the overall cost.

Additionally, you can look for secondhand clothing, take hand-me-downs from friends and family, and do some bargain hunting when it comes to providing for your child. There are a lot of coupon programs and freebies you can receive that will help you deal with the cost of a new baby.

Readers, how much did it cost you to have a baby? What were the biggest expenses?

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Amanda Blankenship
Amanda Blankenship

Amanda is an editor and writer. She has a passion for sharing information that helps people and communities to better themselves in some way. In addition to writing online, she also freelances for local newspapers in her hometown of Charlotte, NC.

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Paying Off Debt vs Saving: Which Is Better?

April 23, 2021 | Leave a Comment

paying off debt vs saving

A few weeks ago we talked about how you don’t necessarily have to give up investing to further your debt freedom progress. Another hot debate in the finance community is paying off debt vs saving. Should you be stacking up savings if you haven’t paid off all your debt? Dave Ramsey would say no. Get your $1,000 emergency fund in place and focus on your debt payoff efforts. But which is really better?

Paying Off Debt vs Saving

First, let’s talk about why this is such a hot debate. If you’re an avid Dave Ramsey follower, you know paying off debt to be the number one priority as far as your finances go. This is because once all of your debts have been paid, you will have more money freed up to put towards savings, retirement, and investments.

However, this simply doesn’t work for everyone. I don’t know about you, but $1,000 isn’t enough to cover a huge emergency in my life. With a new addition on the way, I’ve been feeling the push to save more than ever. Of course, part of that is definitely getting some things paid off to have more cash flow in general, but actually saving plays a role too.

So, which is truly better? There is honestly a case for both.

The Case for Saving

When it comes to deciding whether you should be saving or paying off debt, there is a good case for saving money. The more cash you have to fall back on in the event of an emergency or major life change, the less likely you will be to rack up more debt. For example, if you have a few month’s expenses set aside, you are less likely to lean on your credit card in hard times.

Similarly, if you are expecting a big change like we are, saving more money may seem appealing. Again, you will have more money stashed away for when things change for you. In our case, having a baby is a huge change, especially from a financial standpoint. When you are facing something like that, stashing away some extra savings is never a bad idea.

The Case for Paying Off Debt

While you are saving, you could certainly be paying off debt with that money. Many people in the debt-free community would argue that savings could be saving you money on interest, etc. That is absolutely true, but it provides less peace of mind and immediate cash on hand in the event you run into a financial emergency. That being said, there is a case for paying off debt instead.

When you focus on paying off debt vs saving you will be able to free up more money on a month-to-month basis. For example, if you are focused on paying off your car, paying that off can free up some serious cash monthly. In our case, paying off our car would mean an extra $488 per month. That would make a huge difference. Arguably, once you pay off these bigger bills, you can start saving more quickly. You can also free up more money to put towards other debts, making even more money available month-to-month.

Bottom Line: Do What’s Best for Your Family

Whether you are on team savings or debt payoff, you should always make whatever decision is best for your family. There is no one-size-fits-all for finance. Personal finance is just that: personal. If having more savings in the bank decreases your anxiety when it comes to your financial situation, stash away some extra money. At the same time, if making progress on your debt freedom goals provides you with more peace, focus on that.

Readers, what side of the fence are you on when it comes to paying off debt vs saving?

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Amanda Blankenship
Amanda Blankenship

Amanda is an editor and writer. She has a passion for sharing information that helps people and communities to better themselves in some way. In addition to writing online, she also freelances for local newspapers in her hometown of Charlotte, NC.

www.savingadvice.com

Filed Under: Budgeting, Get Out of Debt, Saving Money Tagged With: paying off debt, paying off debt vs saving, saving, should you save or pay off debt

Setting a New Budget With Variable Income

April 5, 2021 | Leave a Comment

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If you’ve been following the blog recently, you know my husband got a new job. That’s great news for us. Two incomes are always better than one. However, that also means we need to go about setting a new budget.

Why We Are Setting a New Budget

So, obviously, the main reason for setting a new budget is that we now have more money coming in month-to-month. We also have different bills, goals, and needs than we did even four months ago. Because of this, it is crucial for us to sit down and really take a look at our finances.

My income has been steady for several years and will still be leaned on to pay the majority of our bills. This means his new income will be used to do things we’ve been putting off, stashing away money for savings, and paying off debt (yay). The biggest challenge with setting a new budget is that his monthly payments will vary.

How to Set a New Budget on a Variable Income

Because we have both had pretty set incomes in the past, budgeting on a variable income is a little different from what we are used to. So, I did some searching to see what some of the best tips for budgeting on a variable income are. The personal finance blog Money Crashers had some pretty great tips in a guide on their website. Here’s what we are taking away to use in our own budgeting method…

  1. Add up your non-discretionary spending, meaning the bills you have to pay every single month. Usually, this includes things like housing, utilities, groceries, transportation, insurance, debt payments, child care if you have kids, and taxes. Normally, if you are being paid a variable income, you will have to set aside money for taxes on your own, so it is a good thing to keep in mind.
  2. Take a stab at calculating your discretionary spending (the little things). This can be a little harder. Discretionary spending includes everything from holiday spending around Christmas to those tiny day-to-day debits like your morning coffee. You can take a stab at getting a solid number on this by looking at the spending on your bank accounts and credit cards. Formalize the difference between discretionary and non-discretionary expenses for your family. Know what is necessary and what is not.
  3. Then calculate the average monthly income you’ll have from the variable source. Generally, there will be the lowest amount per month you can expect from a job with a variable income. Then there will be higher amounts that may come in. Consider the higher-paid months windfalls and nothing more. Base your budget on the lower amount you may be paid. This way you won’t be caught by surprise if you don’t get paid as much as you’d hope.
  4. Set aside savings first. Once you have all of that figured out, be sure you set aside some savings as soon as your check from the variable income job hits. This money will serve as something to fall back on during the months you don’t make as much or the months where your expenses are higher (i.e. during the holidays).

Readers, have you had to set a budget on a variable income? How did you go about doing it? 

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Amanda Blankenship

Amanda is an editor and writer. She has a passion for sharing information that helps people and communities to better themselves in some way. In addition to writing online, she also freelances for local newspapers in her hometown of Charlotte, NC.

www.savingadvice.com

Filed Under: Budgeting Tagged With: how to set a budget on a variable income, setting a budget on a variable income, setting a new budget, variable income

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