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Setting Your Child Up For Financial Success

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<p>Since we have announced that we are expecting our first child, we have been putting a lot of thought into how we can set our child up for success. We’ve discussed private school vs. public school, reading to them, and teaching them various things. But how do you go about setting your child up for financial success?</p>::Pexels

Since we have announced that we are expecting our first child, we have been putting a lot of thought into how we can set our child up for success. We’ve discussed private school vs. public school, reading to them, and teaching them various things. But how do you go about setting your child up for financial success?

Why It Is Important

Neither one of our families had great financial success when we were younger. In fact, there were a lot of moments we remember our parents struggling. Because of this, setting our little ones up with what they need to be financially stable is important to us. It should be important to you, too.

When you are able to display good money habits for your kids, it makes it easier for them to be a financially stable individual as an adult. Beyond that, providing a financially sound environment for your children will also help reduce their own anxiety and tensions in the home all around. So, how do you go about setting your child up for financial success?

Setting Your Child Up For Financial Success

At an early age, you begin doing things with your child to help boost their development. For many families, this takes the form of a nighttime reading session, socializing your child with others, and teaching them some level of responsibility. As they grow older, it is important to also teach them some financial lessons.

  • Encourage saving. Large purchases in life typically take some kind of planning and usually saving. Try and encourage your child to save up for big items they want or things that are important to them.
  • Open a checking account. When your kid reached high school age, it is a good time to open a checking account for them. It will help them learn responsible spending practices. Additionally, when they start working, they will be able to receive a direct deposit.
  • Add your child as an authorized user. Once they have gotten used to using a checking account, consider adding them on as an authorized user on your credit card. This can help teach them more responsibility and kickstart their credit score.
  • Talk to them about their credit. Many young adults enter their lives without knowing anything about their credit score or how to improve it. Be sure you talk to your child about their credit and educate them on secured credit cards. They can be a great way to help them at the beginning of their financial journey.

Bottomline

There are a lot of things that go hand-in-hand with parenting a child that many people don’t often think about. Educating them about finances starting at a young age with saving and through their teenage years will help set them up for financial success later in life.

Readers, when you had your children how did you teach them about money, saving, and debt?

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Financial Lessons That I Hope to Teach My Daughter

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<p>This year is my first year celebrating Mother's Day as a mom. My eight-month-old baby girl amazes me every single day. As she gets older, I keep thinking about the things I'd really like to teach her, especially where money is concerned.</p>::Pexels

This year is my first year celebrating Mother’s Day as a mom. My eight-month-old baby girl amazes me every single day. As she gets older, I keep thinking about the things I’d really like to teach her, especially where money is concerned.

Financial Lessons My Mom Taught Me

When I think about the things I’d like to teach my daughter I always think about all the things my mom taught me that I carry through my life. One of the biggest lessons I learned from her regarding finances is that there is always more money to be made. Mom hustled a lot while I was growing up. She’s always worked a full-time job and played in multiple orchestras as a violinist. It meant she was gone a bit from October through May, but she made things happen.

I also learned that managing your finances is difficult. As a kid, I was aware of our money struggles. I watched my mom sell a number of her prized possessions so that we could pay our mortgage. We had cars repossessed (my parents would park it in the road and go get another before it hit their credit). Eventually, we lost our home too. At the end of it all though, we were alright. We made things work, we survived.

In our home now, until recently, we were still living paycheck to paycheck. Still, a very small upheaval could cause a big problem in our lives financially. While my mom taught me that money isn’t the end-all-be-all, I entered adulthood still lacking some basic personal finance skills.

What I’d Like to Teach My Daughter

Similar to how my mom taught me that there’s always more money, I’d like to instill in my daughter that money truly isn’t everything. While it is a necessity in the world, it shouldn’t be what you center your life around. Make money, manage it wisely, and life your live to the fullest.

At the same time, I’d like to teach her some of the things I’d wish I’d known. For example, I would like to help her understand budgeting. I’d also like to help her understand loans, interest rates, education and debt. I took on a lot of debt as a young adult that I would’ve probably avoided if I had some additional guidance. As I’ve mentioned here on the blog before, I’d like to be able to set up a savings account for her education and set her up for success.

That said, my mom did such a good job. I was aware of our finances and knew that money was an aspect of life, something most kids aren’t able to wrap their brains around.

Closing Thoughts

Moms are special people. If you are a mom celebrating Mother’s Day this weekend, remember that you are making a huge impact on the world. Everything you’re doing is making a lasting impact on your kids. Most of all, you’re doing a good job.

Happy Mother’s Day!

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