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3 Straight-Forward Budgeting Methods That Actually Work

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>When it comes to budgeting, there is no "one size fits all" method that works for everyone. However, over the last several years, it seems like budgeting has gotten more and more difficult. Financial influencers seem to make the act of budgeting a 10-step system. While that may work for them, I am someone who needs a simple approach. Here are three straight-forward budgeting methods that have worked for me.</p>::Pexels

When it comes to budgeting, there is no “one size fits all” method that works for everyone. However, over the last several years, it seems like budgeting has gotten more and more difficult. Financial influencers seem to make the act of budgeting a 10-step system. While that may work for them, I am someone who needs a simple approach. Here are three straight-forward budgeting methods that have worked for me.

Zero-Based Budgeting

This is the budgeting method we are currently using. It makes you feel a bit like you are living paycheck-to-paycheck because you do bottom out your checking account. The biggest difference is that a portion of that money is put into savings – either a sinking fund, investment account, or emergency savings fund. Our budget also includes money allotted for entertainment and fun so that we don’t feel like we are sacrificing everything sticking to a our budget (something that has hindered us in the past).

To make this work, you need to figure out your take-home income each month. Subtract your necessary expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, groceries, car, insurance, etc. Take away any debt payments, medical expenses, savings, clothing purchases, and going out money. Determine how much money is leftover after taking those things away. This should go into a savings or investment account. You can also use this cash to pay off debts.

The 50/30/20 Method

The 50/30/20 method is another popular way to budget. It is straight-forward and requires less work than most budgeting methods. Like zero-based budgeting, you are using your take-home income to determine how much you will spend in different budgeting categories. Fifty percent of your income should go towards necessary purchases as described above. The next 30% are discretionary expenses. This includes things like paying for Netflix, going out, your gym membership, and general life expenses. The final 20% of your take-home should go towards savings and debt.

‘No Budget’ Budget

Rather than creating a budget, consider doing a few things to monitor your finances instead. Honestly, for a long time, I avoided budgeting. It gave me a bit of anxiety to sit down and look at my finances for an entire month (or even week). The “no budget” budget involves tracking your spending, knowing when bills are due (having them on automatic draft, preferably), setting aside money for savings, and whatever is leftover can be spent.

Before you think about adopting this kind of budget, it is easy to go off the rails. You shouldn’t try to go with no budget until you have established good spending habits and know that you are in control of your finances. For me, the “no budget” budget worked to help me start tracking my spending better, but it didn’t help me save or pay off debt faster. I’d say that if you go with this method you should be debt-free (or close to it) and have an established savings.

Readers, do you go by any of the budgeting methods above? If not, how do you budget your money?

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Why You Shouldn’t Buy a New Car Right Now

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>If you can avoid it, now is not the time to buy a new car. Hold on to yours, be sure to perform regular maintenance and take care of it. The car market is crazy right now. Here's what we recently found out.</p>::Pexels

If you can avoid it, now is not the time to buy a new car. Hold on to yours, be sure to perform regular maintenance and take care of it. The car market is crazy right now. Here’s what we recently found out.

Why We Are Considering a Car

My husband and I have been discussing getting a new car, especially since the arrival of our little one. Currently, we own a 2015 Volkswagen Golf GTI. It has less than 86,000 miles on it and, though we haven’t been the kindest to it, it runs well. That being said, with the car seat in the back, stroller in the hatch, and us in the front two seats, there is very little room for anything else. Not to mention, we have to bring a diaper bag and anything else the little one may need while we are out. While it may help us save money in some cases, it doesn’t make family trips to the grocery store very easy unless we want to go every two days.

That made us consider looking at a bigger vehicle, either a station wagon or an SUV. One look at the car market made us change our minds though. Most of the vehicles on the market right now are double their regular price, that is if you can find what you are looking for on sale. Cars are hard to find right now, which is why their prices are through the roof. This helps the resale value of our car currently but, because we don’t have a second vehicle, simply selling the car wouldn’t be feasible for us.

We would be trading our car in, receive a higher-than-usual trade-in credit but also be paying higher-than-usual prices for any car we find. As you know, we aren’t trying to add a ton of debt to our family’s tally. In fact, we are trying to do the opposite.

Our Decision

After taking the time to review the market and even chatting with a car salesmen at VW, we decided to keep our cramped car and make it work. We are going to invest some money into getting a few things fixed on the car. Then we are going to get it fitted with a roof rack and pod for the top. This will help us be able to take longer trips and go shopping with the whole family.

On top of that, keeping our car and continuing to work on paying it off will help us reduce our debt. Once we pay it off, we can save and pay cash for the next car. With the car market looking the way it does right now, we are happy to keep our little VW.

Readers, have any of you bought a car recently? What was your experience like in the current market?

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Unpaid Tax Debt: What Happens If You Can’t Pay Your Taxes?

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

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What Happens If You Can’t Pay Your Taxes?

Tax season can be a headache, and the thought of owing the government money can put a damper on anyone’s mood. Unfortunately, circumstances can occur that might render it impossible for an individual to pay their taxes. If you find yourself in this situation, it’s important to address it head-on.

Ignoring the issue won’t make it go away. The government takes tax nonpayment seriously and will take action to collect the funds. However, there are alternatives to consider. By being proactive and communicating with the IRS, you may be able to work out a payment plan that fits your budget.

Don’t let tax debt drag you down. Take action and explore your options.

 

Understanding Your Tax Liability

Taxes can be a confusing and overwhelming topic for many people, but understanding your tax liability is crucial to avoiding unpleasant consequences. Your tax liability is simply the total amount of taxes you owe to the government, including various state and federal taxes.

This figure includes not only income tax but also property tax and self-employment tax in some cases. You can use the Taxcaster tool from TurboTax to get a better idea. Knowing your tax liability is essential for staying compliant with tax laws and avoiding penalties. So, take the time to carefully calculate your tax liability and ensure that you are on track with your tax obligations to avoid any unexpected surprises down the road.

 

Consequences of Not Paying Your Taxes

 

1. Accruing Interest and Penalties

When you can’t pay your taxes on time, the IRS (Internal Revenue Service) and state tax agencies will begin to charge interest and penalties on the unpaid balance. These additional charges can quickly escalate your tax debt.

 

2. Tax Liens

If you continue to ignore your tax debt, the government may place a tax lien on your assets, including your home, car, and bank accounts. A tax lien can make it challenging to sell or refinance your property until the debt is satisfied.

 

3. Wage Garnishment

According to Ideal Tax, the IRS has the authority to garnish your wages if you owe back taxes. This means a portion of your paycheck will be automatically deducted to repay your tax debt, making it even harder to meet your living expenses.

 

4. Seizure of Assets

In the most extreme cases, the government may seize your assets to cover your tax debt. This means that they could take possession of your property, vehicles, or other valuables as a means of debt recovery.

And if you thought that your bank account was safe, think again. The government has the power to issue a bank levy, which freezes any withdrawals or transactions from your accounts. It’s a harsh measure taken to recover the funds owed, and one that should be avoided at all costs.

 

Options When You Can’t Pay Your Taxes

 

1. Installment Agreement

One option to consider is setting up an installment agreement with the IRS. This allows you to make monthly payments towards your tax debt, making it more manageable over time.

 

2. Offer in Compromise

In some situations, you may be eligible for an Offer in Compromise, which is a settlement that allows you to pay less than the full amount of your tax debt. However, this option is typically only available if you can demonstrate financial hardship.

 

3.   Currently not collectible (CNC)

If you are currently facing significant financial hardship, the IRS may temporarily designate your account as “currently not collectible.” This means they will halt any collection actions until your financial situation improves.

 

Seek Professional Help

Filing taxes can be an intimidating process, filled with endless forms and complex regulations that seem to be in a constant state of flux. Trying to navigate these waters alone is a daunting task, but thankfully there are professionals who can help. By seeking the advice of a tax attorney or certified public accountant (CPA), you can rest assured that your tax issues will be handled with the expertise they require.

These professionals have spent years studying the intricacies of tax law and staying up-to-date with the latest developments, meaning they know how to guide you through the process while minimizing your stress and maximizing your potential savings. Don’t let tax issues weigh you down: seek out professional help today, and take control of your financial future.

 

Conclusion

Facing tax debt can be a challenging and stressful experience, but it’s essential to address the issue promptly. Ignoring your tax debt can lead to severe consequences, including accruing interest and penalties, tax liens, wage garnishment, and even the seizure of assets.

However, there are options available to help you manage your tax debt, such as installment agreements, offers in compromise, and Currently not collectible (CNC). It’s crucial to consult with a tax professional to determine the best course of action for your specific situation.

 

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How We Plan to Reach Our 2022 Goals

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>Everyone is talking about what their resolutions for the new year are. I spoke about our financial resolutions in a post on the blog here recently. What most people don't talk about is the dedication, motivation, and hard work it takes to accomplish each of those goals. It takes a substantial amount of planning and twice as much dedication. So, I'm sharing with you how we plan to reach our 2022 goals.</p>::Pexels

Everyone is talking about what their resolutions for the new year are. I spoke about our financial resolutions in a post on the blog here recently. What most people don’t talk about is the dedication, motivation, and hard work it takes to accomplish each of those goals. It takes a substantial amount of planning and twice as much dedication. So, I’m sharing with you how we plan to reach our 2022 goals.

What Are Our 2022 Goals?

As I mentioned in a previous post, our financial goals mostly center around getting organized. Our finances really aren’t very organized. We need to open up a tax account, a separate savings account, IRAs, and savings for our daughter’s education. At the beginning of the year, we may also be considering trading in our vehicle after we file taxes. However, we aren’t solely focused on improving our money situation. Everyone has other goals they want to accomplish in life.

Personally, I’d like to continue practicing yoga in the new year. I also want to lose this baby weight and keep up my book-a-week reading habit. I also intend on continuing to learn German and would like to take some sort of class outside my general realm of things. I’m also taking a vow to take one day off from social media entirely every week.

How We’re Reaching Them

That being said, we’ve got some pretty lofty goals we want to meet in 2022. So, we are going to need a solid plan to reach them. Where our financial resolutions are concerned, we are going to start the year off on the right foot by filing our taxes and getting everything paid off. Admittedly, filing will be a little more expensive this year. We made more and have more write offs. There are some other unexpected expenses coming up as well (emergency dental work for me). Thankfully, we have a plan for all of it. We’re stashing away a percentage of everything we make, even small freelance checks, and putting it towards getting these things taken care of.

Budgeting will play a huge role in reaching our money goals this year too. We will need to budget for our various savings plans, retirement, and taxes. It will be a challenge but sticking to our planned budget will be crucial. On the personal side of things, planning and prepping have always been key to success in my life. When I take the time to plan things out, they typically go well.

This year, that means more meal plans and food prep. It will also mean taking on a better routine all around so that I can maintain motivation and stability. Noting how I’ll spend my day and what I’ll eat helps everything else stay on track in some way. The same can be said of our finances. I keep a calendar budget and stick to it. Finding what works for you in terms of planning and honing in on it will help you reach your 2022 goals.

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How We’re Planning to Spend Christmas This Year

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>Christmas time is usually hectic. Both my husband and I are typically working to meet end-of-year goals while rushing to get things done for the holiday. However, this year, our little one has forced us to slow down a little. That's something kids tend to do, by the way (if you don't have any). Despite our usual seasonal tasks being a little thrown off, we are planning to spend Christmas with family and surrounding the newest member with love.s</p>::Pexels

Christmas time is usually hectic. Both my husband and I are typically working to meet end-of-year goals while rushing to get things done for the holiday. However, this year, our little one has forced us to slow down a little. That’s something kids tend to do, by the way (if you don’t have any). Despite our usual seasonal tasks being a little thrown off, we are planning to spend Christmas with family and surrounding the newest member with love.

A Christmas That Came Together

All in all, this Christmas has just come together. I didn’t go pick up what I needed to make dinner until the Wednesday before Christmas. That is the same day I bought my husband’s gifts. I waited until the last-minute for everything because, well, we’ve been busy soaking up time with our baby. We both returned to work full-time in November and every spare moment we have is with her.

I’m thankful we are both able to work from home and be with her daily, even if there are some hard days. As a family, things generally come together for us. This Christmas is no different. We’ll have a few great things under the tree, thoughtful presents for family, a good meal, and plenty of homemade treats. Best of all, we will be with some of the people we love the most.

Reflecting During the Holidays

The holidays always tends to be a time of reflection for me. I take a moment to think about all that I’ve accomplished throughout the year. Last Christmas, we didn’t even know that we were having a baby yet. Amazing things happened for our family in 2021. There were career moves made, we went on trips, and we received the best gift of them all: our healthy daughter.

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From a financial standpoint, we are far from where we want to be. There is no doubt about that. We still hold debt and now have a little more to pay off from the birth of our child. Our budget has gone haywire and we need to buckle down. There is time for that still. For now, we are enjoying our child’s first Christmas and reflecting on how incredibly blessed we have been this year. We are beyond rich with love in our family.

Readers, do you use the holidays as a time to reflect on your accomplishments? Share some of your wins from this year!

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Unpopular Opinion: People Spend Too Much on Babies at Christmas

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>I've been sharing some of my unpopular opinions on social media more recently and one that got a lot of people upset recently was about babies at Christmas time. As you know, we will have a four-month-old for Christmas this year. It is always an exciting time to be around kids during the holiday season. At the end of the day, she won't remember a single thing. We will create plenty of memories but people spend too much on babies at Christmas. That may be an unpopular opinion but it's true.</p>::Pexels

I’ve been sharing some of my unpopular opinions on social media more recently and one that got a lot of people upset recently was about babies at Christmas time. As you know, we will have a four-month-old for Christmas this year. It is always an exciting time to be around kids during the holiday season. At the end of the day, she won’t remember a single thing. We will create plenty of memories but people spend too much on babies at Christmas. That may be an unpopular opinion but it’s true.

Spending at Christmas

It is estimated that Americans will spend around $886 on Christmas presents this year. Much of that will be on gifts for kids, which is great. There is nothing better than seeing a child’s face light up while they are opening a gift on Christmas morning. However, when it comes to celebrating with your newborn, pump the brakes. People are spending way too much. There are the trendy family photos, matching pajamas, big presents, fancy outfits, and the list goes on. All of it is adorable, but it is also extremely expensive and unnecessary.

Instead, spend some money on a babysitter and get some quality time in with your spouse.  The time you get one-on-one with them will make you return to your home, and your little one, more relaxed and happier. At least, that’s how I’d spend the extra money.

Baby’s First Christmas

Numbers vary on how much families spend on their baby’s first Christmas. The average family will spend about $330 per child. This breaks down in different parts, usually many of them unnecessary. Here’s a break down…

  • Baby portraits: This can cost $100+, depending on the package you purchase. Not to mention you’ll want to buy prints, frames, etc. You’ll also likely spend a pretty penny on the outfit they wear for the photos too. Instead of spending money on this for our little one we’ll be posing her for some photos throughout the week before Christmas in different outfits sent by family.
  • Matching pajamas: It is adorable and super trendy to have matching pajamas, but spending $45 on a onesie every year at Christmas time is insane to me. If you have a bigger family, that starts to add up fast. Even a matching dog bandana was $9. We’ll give our little one new pjs, a book, and a stuffed animal every Christmas Eve but there won’t ever be any pressure to hold the matching pj tradition.
  • Toys: Many families shower their kids in various gifts every year, and that’s great. As I mentioned above, many parents will spend more than $300 on each kid. Our family has chosen to have one big gift every year and lots of smaller, useful things. This year, our little one is getting a walker/activity center, which we paid for in gift cards we had from baby presents still. Typically, we will use Christmas bonuses and money to buy her big gift every year.

In the long run, we hope there is less focus placed on how much money is spent every year and more emphasis on the experiences we have together.

Readers, how much do you think you spent on your child’s first Christmas? 

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Our Money Goals for 2022

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>It's the end of the year, which means many people are overspending to celebrate the holidays. The end of the year also brings about talk of New Year's resolutions and promises to live new, improved lives. I enjoy making resolutions each year and setting goals for our family to reach. It is fun to review how far we've come along and all of the things that changed throughout the year. We've already started brainstorming what money goals we want to attack in 2022.</p>::Pexels

It’s the end of the year, which means many people are overspending to celebrate the holidays. The end of the year also brings about talk of New Year’s resolutions and promises to live new, improved lives. I enjoy making resolutions each year and setting goals for our family to reach. It is fun to review how far we’ve come along and all of the things that changed throughout the year. We’ve already started brainstorming what money goals we want to attack in 2022.

What Money Goals Are Next?

When we set about deciding what financial goals we want to tackle in the new year we review what we’ve managed to accomplish over the last 12 months. This year was a slow one in terms of financial progress for us, but we made a number of upgrades in our lives. We added a new member of the family, upgraded our office equipment, and became a two-income household. Because we expanded our family and business this year, debt payoff progress was slow, but it wasn’t nonexistent. We maintained and grew in so many more amazing ways.

So, what’s in the cards for our family over the next 12 months? Here are some of the money goals we’re discussing for 2022…

  • IRA: One thing we’ve been talking about is opening retirement accounts. Both of us have worked as freelancers most of our adult life, so we haven’t had employee-funded 401K accounts or anything like that. We’d like to start contributing to IRAs and max them out next year. It will help with taxes too.
  • Savings for our child: We’ve talked about it a lot and we want to send our child to private school. To do that, we will need some saving stashed away when the time comes. We are going to do some research on education savings accounts that we can put money into for her. We will also be opening a high-yield savings account for her some time next year as well.
  • Tax account: We haven’t been organized enough in terms of keeping up with paperwork, etc. for taxes. One big money goal for next year is to set up separate accounts and have a system for electronically storing our receipts.
  • More organization: Speaking of electronically storing our receipts, we need a new system of organization altogether. Since having a baby and returning to work, things have been a bit scattered. So, the last week of the year we are going to do decluttering, organizing, and vision board creating.
  • Pay off one account: As far as our debt freedom goals go, we’d like to pay off one account next year (hopefully the car). Of course, I’ll keep you up to date on the progress on this here on the blog.

The Importance of Setting Goals

A lot of people chuckle at folks like me who set resolutions every year, but setting goals for yourself is important. It gives you something to work towards and helps you outline how you can reach your biggest dreams. For us, it will reaching debt freedom, having a home of our own, and providing a life for our family that we love. What more could you really ask for?

Readers, what money goals are you setting for yourself next year?

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Creating Traditions: Place Less Importance on Material Things

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>Tis the season to be stressed out over money because you're trying to keep up with your neighbors. Seriously, I remember growing up there was a literal competition between my dad and the neighbors during Christmastime. Every year, more lights would get added to the house and more decorations put up outside just to one-up the family next door. It was all in good fun and certainly never put my parents in a hard spot financially. However, many people do the same thing with how many gifts are under the tree or creating the Instagram-perfect family get together. They compare to others and spend a fortune trying to keep up with the Joneses. When we start creating traditions in our family, we have decided to place more importance on experiences and spending time together.</p>::Pexels

Tis the season to be stressed out over money because you’re trying to keep up with your neighbors. Seriously, I remember growing up there was a literal competition between my dad and the neighbors during Christmastime. Every year, more lights would get added to the house and more decorations put up outside just to one-up the family next door. It was all in good fun and certainly never put my parents in a hard spot financially. However, many people do the same thing with how many gifts are under the tree or creating the Instagram-perfect family get together. They compare to others and spend a fortune trying to keep up with the Joneses. When we start creating traditions in our family, we have decided to place more importance on experiences and spending time together.

The Reason for the Season

It is easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of what many people refer to as the “shopping season.” The real reason for the season is often forgotten. For many people, it is a time to celebrate faith and love. You celebrate giving and spend time with the people nearest and dearest to your heart. When I think back on holidays as a kid, I think about the Christmas morning breakfast we had each year when my Nana came over.

I also think about the smells in the house, how I’d put on a fashion show with all my new clothes, and we’d curl up on the couch, calling all of our family that wasn’t able to be there. Then, dad would spend the day helping us get our new toys set up while mom cooked a yummy meal. That warmth is something I am reminded of often when thinking about how we can create our own traditions.

How We Are Creating Traditions

Now that we have a little one, it’s time for our family to start creating traditions of our own. My husband and I have been spending time talking about the things we’d like to do with her each year. Obviously, this year she’s still too little to do much of anything but next year and the year’s to come we can continue to build on our traditions. We will also carry over some fun things we remember from our own childhoods (Christmas lights and dressing as Santa).

I recently talked about how we prep for the holiday season and keep things within our budget. The biggest thing was to find things you can experience together with family. While we do plan to do things like matching pajamas and ugly Christmas sweaters each year, the main focus of the traditions we’re creating won’t be material things. We will do small stockings and one big gift each year. Our holidays will be centered around having a fun time with family, showing love and appreciation for each other, and being thankful for the amazing lives we have together.

Readers, what are your favorite holiday traditions?

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Making Debt Resolutions

October 12, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>More people than ever a resolving to be more financially healthy in the coming 12 months than ever. Each year, we typically sit down and list out our goals. Things like "lose 20 pounds," and "save $1,000" usually frequent such lists. However, in the personal finance world, I have seen some really amazing (some lofty) debt resolutions for the new year. Honestly, they are inspiring. It made me sit down and reflect on what my resolutions for 2020 were.</p>::Pexels

More people than ever a resolving to be more financially healthy in the coming 12 months than ever. Each year, we typically sit down and list out our goals. Things like “lose 20 pounds,” and “save $1,000” usually frequent such lists. However, in the personal finance world, I have seen some really amazing (some lofty) debt resolutions for the new year. Honestly, they are inspiring. It made me sit down and reflect on what my resolutions for 2020 were.

Resolutions for the New Year

When 2020 began, I had some pretty hefty resolutions, as many people do. None of us expected COVID to derail our plans. Financially, I’m glad to have been able to pay my rent for all 12 months this year. I am glad to have had a little money in my bank account at all times. More importantly, we haven’t accrued any new debt. When it comes to having met last year’s goals though, there was a valiant effort made.

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As far as cutting our debt in half, that did not happen this year. We were on one income for most of the year and were doing good to make minimum payments. The bigger deal is that we did not accrue any new debt. Both of us hustled more this year with side work, freelance, and other opportunities where we could make money. That goal was definitely met.

The others on the list, well…

I did not reach my goal weight, nor did I finish my novel, or run a 5K. I did learn some German (though I’m not fluent) and I read more this year (40 books in total). I also took a few minutes every day to practice some sort of self-care: goal met. While these may not seem like a huge deal, they were things that significantly improved 2020 for me.

Debt Resolutions for the New year

Now, for my finances in 2021, I’m hesitant to make any big debt resolutions or financial goals. When it boils down to it, I don’t know what the next 12 months will bring us in terms of our money. My husband is starting a new job next week, so we will have an additional income. For the first three months of the year, we will be tying up any loose ends in Atlanta, taking care of things like tires for the car and maintenance items, and getting fully settled in our new home.

After that, we plan to focus on snowballing every extra penny we have towards our debt. In essence, my husband’s new salary should all be additional debt payment cash (whew!). I’m excited about the potential for change for us, but hesitant to be too optimistic, as I am sure many people are feeling right now.

2020 changed a lot of people’s ability to look forward and plan things like debt goals for the next 12 months. For most people, it is hard to plan for anything more than 30 days in advance. So, for now, we are taking everything in stride. I can’t wait to keep you updated on our progress through the next year.

Readers, are you making any debt resolutions for 2022? Are you finding it difficult to look forward to the next year too? 

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Here’s Why It is Hard to Save Money

October 7, 2023 | Leave a Comment

<p>Our family has always struggled a bit with saving money. It seems every time we get an emergency fund established or a little money stowed away, Murphy's Law kicks in and we have to spend that cash to stay afloat. However, we aren't the only ones that struggle with this. In fact, most people find it hard to save money. Here's why...</p>::Pexels

Our family has always struggled a bit with saving money. It seems every time we get an emergency fund established or a little money stowed away, Murphy’s Law kicks in and we have to spend that cash to stay afloat. However, we aren’t the only ones that struggle with this. In fact, most people find it hard to save money. Here’s why…

Is It Really Hard to Save Money?

You may be thinking to yourself, “That sounds like an excuse to just not save.” It’s really not. Saving is hard, especially when you are spreading your focus across multiple financial goals. For us, we are focused on becoming debt-free, saving money for a home, and stacking up our savings. Sometimes, saving takes a backseat.

Not to mention, every time something comes up, we may have to dip into savings to take care of the cost. Of course, this is better than swiping our credit card or taking out a loan, but it makes reaching that three to six-month emergency fund difficult to reach.

All that being said, we aren’t alone. Much of America has a difficult time even saving enough money to cover a $1,000 emergency. That’s pretty nerve-wracking. Many people don’t even save 5% of their take-home income and 20% of Americans don’t save any portion of their income at all. But why?

Why?

In truth, most Americans aren’t saving any money at all because of their own choices. They aren’t willing to scale back or dial down their lifestyle. That isn’t always the case though. There are several factors that contribute to the difficulty of saving money.

  • Rising cost of housing, childcare, education, and healthcare: This is completely out of your control, but everything is going up. With the rising cost of necessities, it is hard to save money.
  • Debt: One of our loan payments is $488 per month. Think about if that was going into savings! Debt is a huge killer when it comes to being able to save.
  • Not making enough money: Your wages simply may not be high enough to stash anything away and cover your basic needs.
  • Lack of organization: Many people don’t track their spending, which can help you identify areas where you might be able to save.
  • Social activities take priority: This is especially hard for younger individuals. Oftentimes, social engagements take a higher priority than your finances (and they shouldn’t). Plan for outings and don’t overdo it.
  • Financial ignorance: Most of what you need to know about finance wasn’t taught in school and parents often fail to teach their kids about managing their finances too.
  • No desire to learn: While you may not have learned young, you can learn how to better manage your money now. You have to want to do it though.
  • Lifestyle inflation: When you get a raise, start saving more money instead of inflating your lifestyle costs.

The best piece of advice I can give you if you are struggling with saving like we often do is to stop comparing yourself to others. This is at the heart of why it is so hard to save money for many people. Unfortunately, when we compare ourselves to others, we wind up overspending and possibly even hindering financial progress altogether. All of this just to keep up with the Joneses. Don’t do it!

Readers, what part of your personal finances do you struggle with most? Why?

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