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How to Practice Mindful Spending During the Holidays

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How to practice mindful spending during the holidays

As the holiday season ramps up, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting. Just six years ago, my husband (then boyfriend) and I were living in a motel, getting ready to spend Christmas homeless. No Christmas tree. No gifts. We had two plates, two cups, two of each eating utensil, one pot, one pan.

Now, it seems easy to go overboard during the holidays. While we aren’t rich, by any means, we are able to buy each other nice gifts and truly enjoy the season of giving. However, I want to practice more mindful spending as we enter the hustle-and-bustle of the end of the year.

What is Mindful Spending?

Mindful spending is more than knowing where your money goes. Satisfied Spending defines mindful spending as, “lifestyle-based money management.” When you practice mindful spending, you are bringing awareness to how you act, think, and feel about money. This helps you create a more sustainable money management plan for yourself because you are getting to the root of your attitude and thoughts toward finance.

Some of the main benefits of mindful spending include:

  • less struggle and more enjoyment from your money
  • avoiding buyer’s remorse
  • decreasing feelings of guilt when you make a purchase
  • improved attitude toward budgeting
  • increased ability to make solid buying decisions

While I try to practice mindful spending all year long, it especially comes in hand at Christmas time. I am someone who loves giving gifts. It’s something that brings a lot of joy to my heart. So, at this time of year, the budget has to include gifts, but each gift is well thought out, researched, and I look for good deals. How can you check with yourself and be sure you’re being more mindful with your spending?

Being Mindful With Money at Christmas

It’s easy to go overboard at Christmas time, especially if you have children. I am currently squashing the desire to buy my little girl everything on her Amazon wish list (which I created for her).

At the same time, household debt is at an all-time high in the United States. If you want to avoid additional credit card debt or loans, you should trying to be more mindful about your spending. Here are questions to ask yourself before making a purchase.

  1. Does buying the item significantly impact you financially?
  2. If so, how will the item impact your life or the life of the person you’re giving it to?
  3. How does buying the item make you feel? Anxious? Excited?
  4. When you think about the purchase, does it align with your short and long-term financial plans?

Of course, gift buying and celebrations make it hard to truly assess every purchase you make this time of year. Asking yourself these questions should help though.

Readers, how do you practice mindful spending during the holidays and throughout the rest of the year? Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

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How Inflation Will Impact Our Holiday Plans

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How inflation is impacting the holidays

Inflation is hitting everybody hard this year. Prices are through the roof. In fact, the price of turkey alone has gone up 23% in the last year. Eggs? 35%. So, getting together for large meals with all the traditional foods may be a bit more difficult this year. Here is how it will impact our holiday plans.

Inflation: A Look At The Numbers

While many government officials have been hesitant to use words like “recession” and “inflation” when speaking about the United States economy, everyone is feeling it.

@districtmediafinance Thanksgiving dinner is looking a lot more expensive this year. #greensbeanspotatoestomatoes #thanksgiving #savingmoney ♬ GREENS BEANS POTATOES – DJ Suede the Remix God

Though the upbeat song in the video above makes you feel a little less anxious about it, the rise in cost of everyday essentials is crippling some families in the U.S. When it comes to celebrating the holidays this year, things are looking very different. People are swapping out their big turkey dinners for something a little cheaper. In some cases, they may choose to skip the big gathering altogether.

Here is how inflation is impacting our holiday plans.

How Inflation Is Impacting Us

This year, we aren’t going to be doing any extensive travel around the holidays. That is the biggest change that will be happening. However, we are also making some changes to our typical menu for Christmas.

Our family typically does a turkey and a ham on Christmas. This year, I am hosting the holiday gathering at my house. We are likely going to only do one main course protein. Sides and other items will be decreased this year as well. After all, it is only one meal. How much do you spend on your weekly dinners?

Tips For Your Family To Beat Inflation

As mentioned in a previous blog post, household debt is at an all-time high in the U.S. For people like us trying to avoid racking up credit card and loan debt, this is simply not an option. How do you still enjoy the season without breaking the bank?

  1. Change the menu. While turkey and ham are the traditional main course items during the holidays, consider changing it up to save money. Swap your turkey for roasted chicken or your ham for a pork loin.
  2. Downsize your celebration. A lot of people get hung up on doing these huge, elaborate celebrations. Downsize things a bit to help you stick to your budget this year.
  3. Find joy in the simple things. The best thing you can do to beat inflation is to find joy in the simple things. A Christmas movie night in your home or driving around to see the lights will provide memorable moments too.
  4. Check out local events. Churches and other organizations in the community may be providing free dinners or items for your holiday meals.
  5. Get help where you can. Whether it is checking the local food bank or asking everyone to bring a dish, it’s okay not to do it all yourself!

How is your family dealing with inflation around the holidays this year? Let me know your tips and tricks in the comments.

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How to Be Frugal With a Newborn

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There is no doubt that having a baby absolutely changes your life. It is a challenge to adjust to such a huge change and maintain progress on financial goals, let alone stay on budget. Needless to say, our monthly budget has been looking rather neglected and ignored recently. This has led us to look for ways to be frugal with a newborn and make the most of our money.

Is It Possible to Be Frugal With a Newborn?

The biggest cost for our family since having a baby has been food. Sometimes you are just too exhausted to cook. So, we wind up ordering food or hitting the drive thru so that I can continue working or tend to a crying child. It’s understandable and we’ve tried to not be too hard on ourselves for it. But it is money wasted and that will always bother me.

That being said, it is possible to be frugal with a newborn. You simply need to find where your problems areas are and focus on improving there to be successful at it. Here’s how…

How to Be Frugal With a Newborn

There are a few steps you need to take to being able to be frugal with a newborn. Frugality is more than just looking for the best deal or pinching pennies. You have to consider long-term wear items and contributing financial factors.

  1. As I just mentioned, you need to be able to identify what your problem areas are. For us, we overspend on easy food. Think about how you can resolve the issue. For example, our family sticks to our grocery budget better if we meal prep and plan. It takes a little additional time but it will save us hundreds per month. Similarly, when our newborn starts eating different foods, we will make her meals as well to help save money.
  2. Invest in quality items. Like I said, frugality isn’t all about pinching pennies. If you are going to use an item every single day or with your children in the future, spend a little extra money. It will keep you from having to buy it again. You may even be able to resell it once you’re done using it.
  3. Hit the consignment shops. Buying secondhand clothing and other items is a great way to be frugal with a newborn and kids in general. They outgrow their clothes and toys so fast, so why spend a ton of money on those things? Not to mention, some stores will allow you to sell your child’s items for a store credit or cash.
  4. Don’t stress experiences now. Until they are older, you shouldn’t spend too much money on experiences for your child. Of course, you want to have those memories but they won’t remember much. As a newborn, they won’t remember anything. Save your money and put it aside for creating memories when they’re a bit older.

These are just a few things we’ve discussed that will help us be more frugal with our newborn and stay on track. What are some of the ways you have saved money with children?

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How to Create a Bi-Weekly Budget

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There are a number of budgeting methods out there. Thankfully, you can always cater your budget to what your current needs are. For the most part, people find it easiest to set up their budget around when they get paid. Because many people get paid bi-weekly, the bi-weekly budget set up is the most common. Here’s how to set one up.

Different Budgeting Methods

When it comes down to it, there are five different types of budgeting methods to choose from. Depending on where you are in your personal financial journey, each has its perks.

  1. Line item budget: This type of budget is what people generally think of when they imagine a budgeting system. Think excel sheet with different expenses on each line. A line-item budget can be detailed and is generally good for beginners to get an idea of their expenses and incoming cash.
  2. Proportional budget: Proportional budgeting has you divide your budget into three main categories: needs, wants, and savings. Then you assign a percentage to each category. Typically, your needs and savings should be the highest percentages while you keep the “wants” relatively low.
  3. “Pay yourself first” budget: You’ve probably heard personal finance blogger after personal finance blogger telling you to pay yourself first. This budgeting method is built around that idea. You decide that you are going to save a certain percentage of each paycheck, let’s say 25%. Then you build the rest of your budget around what is leftover.
  4. Envelope budget: The envelope system is pretty old school. To do this, you have a set amount of money designated for each budget category and you put that cash into envelopes. In the digital age, you can do this by setting up different “envelopes” via online banking. The goal of this method is to make the cash in each envelope last throughout the entire month.
  5. Zero-sum budget: The zero-sum budget is what we will be looking at for our bi-weekly budget setup. At the end of each month, you will have spent all of the incoming money you have. Now, that doesn’t mean you will be spending frivolously. You will still have a line for savings and potentially even your investing contributions.

The Bi-Weekly Budget

So, how do you set up a bi-weekly budget?

Depending on your own personal needs, a bi-weekly budget may not work for you. You may benefit from a weekly or monthly setup more than bi-weekly, especially if you get paid more (or less) often. For us, we have our main income come in every two weeks and we set up a zero-based budget to make the most of those paychecks. Here’s how we set it up…

  1. First, print out a calendar or buy a planner. We use a planner for ours. This makes things more visual.
  2. Start plugging in your expenses to the calendar. Think about what expenses you have each month and how they are divided up throughout the month.
  3. Take varying expenses into account as well. If you have regular recurring expenses that aren’t on a monthly basis, make sure you take note of them and plan for them accordingly. The best way to do this is to set money aside into a sinking fund for these.
  4. Save! You should always have a line item for savings. Whether you are building an emergency fund or sinking funds, save some money out of each check and put it in your budget.
  5. Track your spending. Once you have what you think is a good budget in place, begin to track your spending to be sure your budget is accurate and will work for you.

Choose What Works For You

The last item in setting up a bi-weekly budget is possibly the most important. You have to choose a budgeting method that will work for you. Track your spending and get familiar with your finances. Doing this will ensure you are being realistic in your expectations. Similarly, if you are paid on a weekly or monthly basis, a bi-weekly system may not be the best option for you. Take all of your personal needs, financial goals, and expenses into account to find the best budgeting method for you.

Readers, what budgeting method do you use?

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Planning for Unexpected Expenses

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There is no doubt we’ve made strides in the right direction as far as our finances are concerned. However, there is still one area in which we are failing: planning for unexpected expenses.

This week I got the bridesmaid dress for an upcoming wedding in the mail (two weeks out from the wedding) and my worst nightmare occurred. It didn’t fit! It was far too late to return it for the correct size, so I decided to take it to a local alterations place. The total for the changes needed came out to $250.

The price definitely threw me for a loop and, because we aren’t using credit cards, it came directly out of savings. I was frustrated with myself for not planning ahead for alterations costs.

Why is Planning for Unexpected Expenses Important?

Planning for unexpected expenses is key to becoming debt-free. If we weren’t so devoted to not swiping our credit cards, I could have easily racked up another $250 in debt without batting an eye. The same is true for other expenses that may come your way out of the blue.

Failing to prepare for this is can lead to you hindering your debt progress. Not to mention, it can have an impact on your emergency savings and take away from paying off your debts. It can also put a dent in your emergency savings. Then you have to readjust your finances to refocus on padding your savings accounts once again instead of using the money for my debts.

How to Plan for Unexpected Expenses

Thankfully, there are things you can do to plan for the unexpected things in life. Here are a few tips to help you avoid the mistake I’ve made.

First, identify your unexpected expenses. Of course, we can’t always see into the future, but if there’s something that comes up with some regularity, you can try to plan ahead for it. For instance, property taxes, medical expenses, birthdays and holidays, and car repairs can all be planned for.

To identify other unexpected expenses, you can take a look at the past year’s bank and credit card statements. Note any irregular purchases and try to budget for that. You can add up the total of all the expenses and then divide it by 52 weeks. Set aside that amount every week moving forward. This can help you have the money set aside when something unexpected comes up.

Doing this will help you plan ahead and (unlike me) have the cash set aside when something may pop up. Do you have any additional tips you’d add? Leave them in the comments below!

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Tips to Help You Find Financial Focus

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There is no secret that becoming debt free requires a fair amount of focus and determination. Sometimes it can seem like the entire universe is against you getting back on track or paying off your loan, credit card, whatever it may be. Here is how I’m able to re-center and find my financial focus after a setback.

Recent Setbacks

If you’ve been following our family for the past couple of years, you know I am no stranger to setbacks. After living in a motel for six months, getting into our apartment, racking up some debt, and losing one of our incomes for six months, you think I’d be ready for just about anything, right?

In the midst of wedding planning and my regular busy schedule, I got intensely ill in January and it really set me back. First, I was ill with the flu and then I was in the hospital for possible appendicitis (yikes). Then, when I returned to work I got a notification that the state would be garnishing my wages for my 2017 back taxes. I’d been attempting to work out a payment plan but didn’t owe much so they’ll be taking $460 a month until about May or June.

When this happened I spiraled a little bit. Forget the wedding, forget our savings plan, forget all of it. However, before I completely overreacted, I decided to take a step back and reset my financial focus.

Finding Financial Focus

Obviously, this isn’t the first time this has happened. Sometimes, it is hard to focus on the big picture when everything seems like it is going wrong. Because I have the tendency to overreact, I need a go-to list of things to do to recenter my personal financial focus.

  1. Set small, obtainable, short-term goals. If you put your mind in the now and set more immediate goals you won’t be able to be bogged down by the “what ifs” of six months from now.
  2. Write it down. After you’ve set these smaller goals, write them down. We do this with everything. Whether it is our debt payoff plan, weekly budget, or savings goal. Writing it down helps us set our mind to the task at hand. Then we walk by it daily and are reminded of what we’re working towards.
  3. Search for inspiration. I cannot say enough about following fellow debt-free folks! If you follow the hashtag #debtfree or #debtfreecommunity on social media, you will find loads of inspiration. People will share their stories with you, favorite inspirational quotes, and motivational tips to help you continue on your journey.
  4. Spend time doing things that make you happy but also make you feel responsible. I like to try and avoid spending money when I feel I need better financial focus. To do this, we have a list of things we enjoy doing that cost little-to-no money. For instance, we have favorite walking trails where we take the dog or scrape for free coupons and grab a coffee together.

Lastly, if you’re really struggling to manage your finances, consider speaking with a professional. There is no shame in reaching out for help if you need it. Some financial advisors will even offer up their services for free (or cheap) if you qualify.

Readers, how do you recenter your focus when it comes to your finances?

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How Often Should You Review Your Budget?

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Budgeting can be a huge pain, especially if it seems like you are constantly revisiting it. With my other half out of work, I feel like we are constantly examining our budget for places to trim and save more money. Even if you’re not in the midst of a financial crisis, you should review your budget on a regular basis to make sure you’re saving as much as possible. So, how often should you review your budget?

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1. When There’s a Change in Your Finances

First, you should absolutely take a look at your budget every time there is a major change in your financial situation. So, you’ll want to review your budget when you’ve gotten a raise, lost income, paid off debt, or add an expense. If there’s a major change in cash flow, you’ll likely need to make major changes to your budget. For individuals earning more or paying off debt, you’ll want to increase your savings and retirement investments once you have more cash flow. If you’ve lost income, you’ll want to trim unnecessary costs in order to save money.

2. Monthly

We are currently looking at our budget on a monthly basis because we need to identify places to trim constantly. Many others take a look at their budget on a monthly basis as well, especially if they are attempting to pay off debt. The best time to do this is generally at the end of the month. Take a look at the previous month’s budget and determine how well it worked for you and your family. Adjust certain aspects of your budget as needed.

3. Quarterly

Another great way to review your budget is quarterly. Many of us make financial goals at the beginning of the year. Revisiting those goals, and your budget, every three months can help you stay on track. It can also help you review where you may be able to trim costs on a larger scale. For instance, if you notice you’re spending a lot on entertainment the first quarter of the year, you can make a concentrated effort to scale back in the second quarter.

4. Every Four Paychecks

Every four paychecks or every six, or however many makes sense to you. Usually, we take a look at things each billing cycle (monthly), which is every two paychecks for me. However, expanding that timeframe can be beneficial and give you a larger snapshot of your overall finances. If you decide to set up your budget review schedule this way, just be sure it makes sense for the way your finances are set up.

5. Annually

Some people thrive on an annual budget and only review it throughout the year if there is a major change in their finances. For me, this simply wouldn’t work, but if you are already debt-free and have a great savings plan in place, an annual budget review may be perfect for you.

If you’ve ever asked yourself how often should you review your budget, you’re not alone. It is a question I’ve struggled with occasionally. Keeping constant tabs on your finances can be exhausting but the financial freedom it can lead to is motivating!

Readers, how often do you review your budget? 

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Save Money on Home Entertainment With These 5 Tips

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It’s easy to feel like your entertainment budget is out of control. The things we pay for in this budget category are nowhere near being a necessity, however, everyone needs to have fun, right? If your budget has got you down, here are just a few ways to save money on home entertainment…

How to Save on Home Entertainment

You may have noticed it says “to save money on home entertainment.” While entertainment costs usually occur outside of the home, if you truly want to save cash you’ll want to stay home and have fun (though there are a few here that involve going out). Going out costs more because you pay extra to have someone making your food, and you pay for ambiance as well as convenience. Staying at home is really the way to go.

That being said, here are ten great ways to save on home entertainment:

1. Netflix

Netflix became a great way to save on home entertainment years ago. Before Redbox gained a ton of popularity, Netflix began a monthly DVD mailing subscription. You received a DVD in the mail for your monthly price and once you returned it, you’d receive the next movie on your list. Slowly but surely, Netflix turned into the giant entertainment source it is today. Overall, it is still a great way to keep your home entertainment costs low (especially if it is the only streaming site you subscribe to). Netflix monthly subscription prices start at $7.99 per month.

2. Amazon Prime

Amazon Prime is another great way to trim the cost of home entertainment. Many people use Amazon’s video services to replace their current television services. This can save you hundreds of dollars a month if your cable bill was steep enough. Prime offers tons of television and movie options as well as the option to purchase individual channels, like HBO and Showtime, if you desire to do so. If you’d like to watch a new movie, you can rent it through Amazon. You’ll also get free shipping on many items and other great Amazon Prime perks. (See: Is Amazon Prime Worth It?) You can purchase Amazon Prime services for $99 per year.

3. Sling TV

Another great way to trim the cost of home entertainment is joining Sling TV. Sling TV prides itself on being “a la carte” television where you choose what channels you want. Packages start at $20 a month for basic live television. This includes many of the regular television channels you receive with basic cable at a much cheaper price. The more channels you add to your package, the higher the price will be. However, Sling TV can save you a ton of money, especially if you’re switching from traditional cable.

4. Consider a Movie Pass

This doesn’t necessarily pertain to “home entertainment” but you can save a ton of money on monthly entertainment costs by considering a Movie Pass. If you’re an avid moviegoer, Movie Pass may be a perfect option. For $9.99 a month you can attend unlimited movies at various theaters throughout the United States. Of course, you’ll want to be sure that there is a theater near you that accepts the Movie Pass. If they do, you’ll save a ton on going to the movies.

5. Skip Redbox

When most people think about skipping the movies, they think Redbox. However, Redbox can actually cost you more money than it saves you. Sure, it’s only $1 and some change to rent the movie for one night. More often than not, you keep the movie for multiple days or until you have a chance to drop it off again. This usually winds up costing you $5 or more (up to $35 if you keep it out long enough). Skip Redbox and rent movies online, through Amazon or YouTube.

Whether you decide to take these tips on how to save money on home entertainment or find new ways to save for your home, discovering ways to trim your budget and save is always great!

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The 5 Categories Missing From Your Budget

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Are you struggling to make your budget work but keep coming up short?

If your budget isn’t working, you might think that you’re just not trying hard enough to stick to it. But I don’t think that’s always the case.

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